So I’m just ranting here but I’ve got family members and friends who seem to constantly get laid and have multiple people wanting to sleep with them on a regular basis I’m damn near 30 only got with one person by accident years ago because a friend of mine wanted to go out that night, and now I’m in college surrounded by attractive women all damn day and not once in all these years ever have I been gawked at or even in a relationship. At this point I can’t find the motivation to even get in better shape since diabetes runs in my family, not that I’m morbidly obese, I make sure I smell nice I’m not immediately suggesting sex or even being thirsty and still nothing, sure I’m big but most of these guys are twice my size and look like they’ve been hit with a semi and got acid thrown in their face. at this point, I’m just half a bottle of crown royal deep writing this but if any advice outside of “just be yourself” and “ everyone has their own pace” comes along and I haven’t suck started a shotgun it’d be much appreciated. I either get “I don’t date black guys” “I’m gay” “I’m in a relationship already” “ or “Is your friend single?” Without even getting out my damn name. Are some people ie me meant to just die forever unfuckable alone in an alley somewhere?