My biggest criteria in finding a (preferably long term) partner is someone who is extremely loyal and protective of your honour, far above looks and even personality. A clear example would be like the wives of Brazilian football players. For context, like when a football player is being criticised or lambasted on social media, they would definitely not hesitate to back them up everywhere. Is this trait something you look for in a woman is this something you can shape within them when they are already with you? I've dated an Arab girl like this once who had this trait which made me fall in love with her harder but distance made it difficult for us. Any advice would be appreciated.