Hey boys, alright, here’s the situation: I’ve been seeing this girl for 8 months now and we started dating a month in. When we first started, I wasn’t exactly in love with her, but hey, she was good company, and I liked having someone around. Fast forward to now, and I’ve made a bunch of mistakes, haven’t put in much effort, even though she knows that she just doesn’t want to leave. And I’m just kinda… stuck.

She’s all in. She’s constantly asking for reassurance, crying a lot, and insecure. And I’m over here feeling like I’m about to be in the middle of a soap opera because I have no idea how to just end it. Honestly, I’m not sure if I should even be dating right now — but I also don’t want to be the bad guy.

So, before I end up in a dramatic "I never loved you!" moment, I need some advice. What’s the move here? How do I end it? I know I fucked up.

Thanks everyone