How do you find hookups?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-11-10T11:35:47+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Chezzen_j · 2024-11-10T05:09:07+00:00

Bro, you don’t ask if they are into hook ups. Go on dates with them and fuck them, avoid serious relationship talks, only see her at night and fuck her every time you see her. Some girls are okay with hook ups and most of them will still end up wanting a relationship but that’s just the nature of things.

ellabbanlaith · 2024-11-10T05:04:26+00:00

okay so here’s the thing, they wanna hookup. vast majority of the time they won’t explicitly say or lead with that. if their profile says something like “still figuring it out” or similar that means there’s a good chance they won’t be against having a hookup even if that’s not their ideal situation

even girls looking for a relationship will often hook up with a guy they find attractive but not fit for a relationship with. it’s one of those things where you sort of just have to read between the lines

girls make rules for men they’re not that attracted to, and exceptions for those they are!!

redspikedog · 2024-11-10T07:13:34+00:00

woman, as I noticed, have this subconscious thinking that by all means they should never be known as a one night stander, slut, whore - whatever they think might make them look bad. So they'll avoid situations or obvious or too soon things that lead to sex. So asking them "lets fuck now?" is going to kick in the "NO WAY, IM NOT A WHORE".

While this is real, its quite confusing that they DO WANT TO FUCK. They want to unleash the inner freak they secretly have been hiding to save face from being labeled negative things as mentioned earlier. Lets not forget that their are times when a woman will just say fuck it and do it.

Point is, girls want to fuck, but will play as something else to save face. So whatever it is, weather they say "long term", "get to know", "talk to people" - it doesn't matter. They're doing it to hide the real reason - to fuck. Not only does this save them, but also weeds out those who will make them look bad and makes her give the excuse incase someone catches her and instead uses the other person to blame for "Oh he was trying to use more for sex, what a creep". (translation: It was too soon I didn't want to open my legs and someone might think im an easy whore!).

But when you start to understand them, you will follow. And when you do hook up, they will say good things to their friends like "yeah he was charming" "yeah we met and had a good time" and shit like that. Now you know women are liars!!!

So if you want to hook up on tinder, or hook up at clubs, or hook up at where ever or on whatever - PLAY THE GAME. Just go with it. Their game is a trail, not a maze. Just follow their trail.

...if they didn't want to hook up, wouldn't they not be on tinder? ;D

MorganScott616 · 2024-11-10T05:00:28+00:00

Walk up to, or try to talk to every good-looking girl you see at a place girls frequent like the mall. It's a number game. You have to know how to talk to girls to get them to even hook up. You're practicing your conversation game, and you're talking to a potential hookup, and if you make a game of it for a couple hours, you can run through a lot of options. I used to sit in the food court at the mall, and any pretty girl I saw walk by me, I would say, "Hey, come here for a second" while motioning them with my hand. I would say it in a manner like I had something important to tell them. if a girl approaches you when you do this, you have phenomenal odds of her being open for a conversation. Otherwise, she wouldn't have come over. If she's open to a conversation and you are decent with conversational game, you have a great chance of getting her number. This strategy is SO effective. It's honestly it's unbelievable. I've had an UNREAL amount of success meeting women like this. Something about having them walk up to you just opens them up in a completely different way and is almost an icebreaker all in itself.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-11-10T07:36:07+00:00

I go to party bars and talk to the women sitting or standing alone.

I do the basic night game system and take them home.

It's really not that hard to do you just have to go out a lot and approach the opportunities that you see.

muddymudd · 2024-11-10T09:35:12+00:00

So the other night I walked into the bar, sat down with a drink, and a woman looked at me.

I made eye contact.

"Are you single?" Said she.

"Yes," said I.

"Are you straight?" Said she.

"Yes," said I.

"Wanna fuck?" Said she.

"Yes," said I.

Really that simple.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-11-10T02:43:12+00:00

Im not the best at hookups but basically you have to be sexually attractive to overcome the negative of only wanting sex. Women would rather have 100 male " friends " who cater to her every emotion , spoil her and flatter her ego than another dick to suck.

Men would rather have 100 sex partners than a female friend.

The interests aren't aligned so you have to be ok with the low number of hookups or manipulate women to get into their pants Usually by pretending to want a relationship but not offering the full relationship package.

If you're honest tho you save TONS of mental energy

With specifically OLD you want a high match rate tho so you might want to leave out what type of relationship your looking for until your off app. I'm not sure tho I'm going to experiment to see what's best.

htownaliens · 2024-11-10T02:28:55+00:00

All mine have been thru friends of my friends or work

WhyteChorizo · 2024-11-10T03:01:13+00:00

i’m extremely attractive so after matching i’ll throw out a compliment and then just ask if they wanna go out for drinks and hookup. 21 m body count is 16, started fuckin when i was 18.

Title	How do you find hookups?
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Date	November 10, 2024 2:25 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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