EX-GF contacted me out of the blue after 4 months.

polyethene · 2015-09-12T14:20:34+00:00

This is a common theme with girls: they leave you to try find a better option (hypergamy) and when they fail to get the level of attention they expected they come back for that validation. Don't be sucked in and become a beta orbiter, you learned about TRP and you've just begun to get your life on track, and you won't make progress if you get dragged down by ghosts from the past.

In any event best of luck.

3rt41 · 2015-09-12T13:41:11+00:00

Oh please not this again, just let go and move on to better prospects

fnordsnord · 2015-09-12T14:31:18+00:00

She wants validation. Don't give it to her.

Xanderab · 2015-09-12T13:08:06+00:00

Your best bet is to plate her.

SkorchZang · 2015-09-12T18:14:22+00:00

That's a lost cause dude, don't spend any mental effort thinking about it and just move on to bigger better things.

Ignoring your message and leaving the thing "hanging in the air" after SHE started the interaction is the typical way girls go about it, it's meant to hook your emotions again. She's the one ignoring you so now she has the power. You're somewhat falling for it too, this post of yours is evidence that girl game works pretty good, even if it's dumb.

She is wasting your time, best reaction is to smirk to yourself and just pay zero attention to her. See if she tries to contact you again when she starts to feel like you don't even care that she's ignoring you. If she does, and you'd like to fuck her again, then go for the usual cocky/funny tone, no heavy subjects, try to get her out for some face-to-face in the evening, say see you then, and stop the interaction. You don't want to be on text with her back and forth for hours/days and then have nothing come of it, makes you look stupid.

Title	EX-GF contacted me out of the blue after 4 months.
Author	Pavalion
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	September 12, 2015 12:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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