Not responding... good first date?

Ola_Kala · 2015-09-14T14:08:50+00:00

Went out with a lady last week, escalated, made out, all good

Good

Then texted afterwards for a little bit.

Im so and so about this, try and not get mixed up in the whole texting game, let her miss you a bit, texting right after a date --> can be interpreted as desperate, or too invested already.

But dont worry about that.

no response yet. should i follow up? let it go?

You asked to hangout, thats cool, DO NOT text anything else, only use texting to setup dates, that is all. Do not text her again prompting an answer.

Just say "hey, lets go for drinks 8pm @ _____ " something like that, dont text too much.

If she doesnt respond by the end of today, etc, LET HER text you dont keep prompting her.

Cheers.

fnordsnord · 2015-09-14T14:57:00+00:00

No - she's a girl and the text is on her phone. She got it, and she chose not to respond. That means you are NOT "plan A" for tonight.

So plan something else without her, have a GOOD time, and do NOT wait to hear from her.

Do NOT follow up. It makes you look needy and lowers your SMV.

Danedina · 2015-09-14T16:18:38+00:00

Trust me: if she was hot for you, she would have gotten in touch. This chick is luke-warm at best. Find someone who wants your D.

throw_em_all · 2015-09-14T14:50:16+00:00

If she doesn't reply or declines without proposing an alternative day/activity, soft next.

Title	Not responding... good first date?
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Date	September 14, 2015 1:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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