This is something I've found to work for me, as someone who isn't the best at flirting or speaking sexually, but has nice eyes and can get a woman talking a lot.

Basically when they are talking, I'll just maintain strong eye contact and slow everything down.. and then (here is the weird part) I imagine making love to them and hold that eye contact.

1) it turns me on 2) I noticed that they can feel that attraction, and it is very subtle, and if you are already attractive to them, they react positively.

This is my go-to since I'm not the best flirter, it changes the vibe from playfulcand energetic to romantic and relaxed, but with any woman who's found me attractive, its the best way I can make things sexual without speaking sexually.

It's hard to describe why, but I think it's because like 70% of communication is body language, and women pick up on those things easily.

Now obviously I never want to be a creep, so if the woman isn't holding eye contact and isn't just shy, it's time to cut that shit out, but I've never had that, even women who aren't interested sexually still seem to take it as a subtle compliment.

Any thoughts on this? I know its not in my head because this would drive my ex crazy and also has gotten a few dates to start being more comfortable and touchy with me. Just curious what y'all think, call me crazy but it works for me. Also I can't help slow blinking when I'm comfortable with the eye contact but thats a different story.