How do I text women without being bland/boring?

New women is usually a compliment, or even a basic, "hey name how is your day going?"

If I have spoken/texted to them a day or 2 now, it's usually "hope your day is going well!"

I get so stuck in the generic texts like that, especially the "hope your day is going well" due to my past LTR, its all i know.

How do I stop talking about myself and get them to open up?

How can I be more interesting in text without oversharing?

How much rapport needs to be built until i plan for a date with a complete stranger? (If im nervous about meeting a stranger, she's definitely 10x more nervous)

I use 😆, 🙂, haha, and lmao— a lot in my texting to not be robotic, but are these good to use and what are other ways i can come across as lively through text?

I hate texting and prefer real life, or even a phone call, but I know a lot of women need to feel comfortable first before jumping into that. (Honestly I could probably give women this disclaimer, obviously in a more casual way?)