Here is the post for absolute begineers, I will edit this post from time to time to update new limiting beliefs (frankly there are an infinity of limiting beliefs). This is for the begineers who recognize the value of pickup as a skill but has too much restrictions in their minds to get started. Let's begin with some motivation.

The Cost Of No Action.
Many fears cloud your mind. You fear about the future and what may happen. Uncertainty. Pickup, what a large and complex topic, you feel so overwhealmed. Immediately stop thinking about all of this and come to the present moment.

What is the cost I bear for not start taking action today? Write it down. Look at this list you have written and ask yourself, "Do I want to suffer this cost for the rest of my life?"

Action With Limited Knowledge
As a absolute begineer, you dont really need to know much. Don't even bother reading the things I post. Go outside and do 30 approaches without any techniques. Write down all the problems you face, and only then, you research what to learn next.

Top Reasons On Why You're Not Getting Laid.

  1. You dont approach
  2. You're not social enough
  3. You dont have 1000 approaches
  4. You're a victim
  5. You dont know what attracts women
  6. You dont think you can get your ideal woman
  7. Bad verbal skills
  8. Staying at home and not going outside
  9. Toxic ideology, demonization and unhelpful justifications.

You can learn how to get laid on my profile. But before that, do the 30 approaches first.

Fear And Expectations
Now the idea of consistently approaching is getting quite tough. You will start to have all the rationalizations of why you cant approach, and I will teach you how to unwind these beliefs in a moment but I want to set you this expectation.

Commit to do 1000 approaches before you give up. That is the real sample size. You cannot evaluate your progress until you have done 1000 approaches. The learning curve is incredibly steep and unforgiving.

Limiting Belief #1 - Appearance
Includes: (bald, not attractive enough, not fit, fat, short, dick size, too asian)

Admit to 100 women about your insecurities. "I like you so much {name} but I am so insecure about my shiny and bald head, I approached you because I'm so hopeless about my dating situation and I want to change that". Tell them the truth about what you feel after you have collected their number, or, you can even use this as your canned opener. After you do this one hundred times, reassess your beliefs surrounding your appearance.

Limiting Belief #2 - Geography
Includes: (no attractive women in my area)

You have the ability to move locations to a bigger city. Yeah I know it's a pain in the ass, but just take a look at the list you made previously. If you dont move cities, you must bear the cost of no action. This is your only option. Well, where should I move? - A city where you can meet at least 100 attractive new women every month.

Limiting Belief #3 - Materialism
includes: (no money, no assests, no big house, no car, homeless)

In conversation, tell one hundred women all the true facts about yourself. Observe the responce. Example: I have told a woman that I was broke and that we would have to go on a date eating chicken rice for 8 bucks. Again, no judgement until you do it 100 times.

Limiting Belief #4 - External Judgement
includes: (approaching is wierd, what if....... , getting humiliated)

The only solution here is to go againts your instincts and approach anyways. You need concrete evidence of what you think might happen, will not happen at all in reality. Start accumulating contradictions between beliefs and reality under said conditions first before arriving at your conclusion.

Limiting Belief #5 - Age
includes: (i'm too old, young)

Yes, after your 40s its going to be rather tough for you and I must admit I dont really have a solution for you. Ultimately, the litmus test here is internal and not external. You need to realize that if you dont change your situation now, it's going to be even harder in another 5 years. Accept the cost today.

Limiting Belief #6 - But Research Shows!
includes: (science tells me...., research shows....)

Behold. I place in front of you a beautiful woman and an average looking woman. I give you a questionaire and ask you questions. Well I think you can see the problem here. In the wild, nobody is doing questionaires. Science is irrelevant. It's good at physics but not pickup. You can ask women in your life if they did a questionaire before selecting who they were attracted to.

Limiting Belief #7 - Comparison
includes: (girls like this and I dont have that, that chad have that and I dont have that)

You cannot attract all women. Just like you, women have a type. You can only attract women who likes your type. What a good news! You should be jumping out of your seat reading this. This means that no man can hold monopoly over the dating market and YOU will have the opportunity to compete with these "chads." I will give the odds to 10%, realistically only 10% of women you approach will actually find you attractive. That's why it's important to approach 1000 times. Dont compare, until you have approached 1000 times.

Do before talking. Best of luck.