How to fall in love again?

Upper-Divide-7842 · 2024-12-28T13:16:08+00:00

"However, I believe most of this sub already understand that women nowadays are not as great as the society want us to believe."

Yes but no one is as great as society wants us to believe women are.

Women are, like men, some shitty, some not.

The purpose of understanding female nature is to NOT become a misogynist because you now understand that they have their own logic for why they do what they do.

Once you actually understand the rules of the game women are playing they should seem a lot less capricious and more sympathetic.

Then you can decide how you want to play the game or if, like me, it all seems like too much hassle.

You can blame an individual woman for her specific bad behaviour but you can't blame "women" for their general nature they're just fellow travellers at the end of the day.

7_Exabyte · 2024-12-28T13:59:01+00:00

The most important thing to always remember is that not all women are the same, just like men aren't all beer drinking, football watching mechanics. It is good that certain channels warn men about the true nature of women since they tend to be romanticized by society (though I personally don't like Alexander Grace as he generalizes way too much), but not every woman expresses this nature. You gotta observe a woman first and see whether she is a modern feminist or not. See what she likes, what her character is like, what her ideals are, if she has a job, her humor etc. You can and will find women that are not what Alexander Grace and other preach the whole day.

Yousaidyoudfighforme · 2024-12-28T12:27:54+00:00

Not at all? Seriously. Why would any man want a woman in 2024/25. They’re unpredictable, expensive and have no reasons to be loyal. Men need to grow up and get over their addiction to women. Women can do well without men. Countless studies suggest so. Time for men to the same.

Legitimate_Fan_4977 · 2024-12-28T12:37:12+00:00

Until the day straight men free themselves from sexual attraction to women, Mens right activism will never reach to success. Women use sex to manipulate and control men and they are very successfull at it. The reason why the society looks the way it does today is just that. So why do you chase love and affection from women? If you really want love and sex, you can find it in other men. Do not give women any power.

Remote_Purpose_4323 · 2024-12-28T17:43:28+00:00

Fall in love with yourself. As a man who has a tendency to please everyone and then suffer afterwards, I decided to place myself first. I am the priority. If I have an impulse to do something for someone, I stop. I reverse that impulse and try to do the same for myself. For some reason, I find myself feeling like that thing is too costly or I am totally fine without it and can live my life with what I already have. It’s just crazy. Why is it that for someone else it was not so hard? It’s actually hard to love yourself and care about yourself. So when I love myself, I am not fine anymore with a slightest discomfort. And why should I be? It’s not like me being uncomfortable or unhappy will help someone to feel better. Believe me or not, women feel that. Not only women, but men too. People are now asking if it’s alright with me. I can see some level of jealousy in their eyes, but they are drawn to me like I am a lighthouse. I deserve love, like it’s not limited or something. So just love yourself, and you will attract someone else with the same wavelength. That’s a recipe.

Street_Conflict_9008 · 2024-12-28T12:31:52+00:00

How well do you know yourself? What do you desire at different stages of life? What is your ultimate goal for a LTR? What can you bring to an LTR? What would you like in a partner?

Character is very important!

Professional-You2968 · 2024-12-28T12:31:26+00:00

There are non feminists women out there This is one of the first thing to probe if you are looking for a healthy relationship, you have to figure out if her ideas are sane or if she is a misandrist.

Nouvel_User · 2024-12-28T12:37:47+00:00

"Women and their true nature" MY GOD. This is sick.

Puzzled-Fly9550 · 2024-12-28T16:22:09+00:00

Hit up the Philippines.

JUSTICEFORBB · 2024-12-28T16:59:33+00:00

Trust, and learn to know a connection, become friends first

tinyhermione · 2024-12-28T13:00:55+00:00

On YT you often find people telling adults fairytales for money. It’s one way to get rich. Tell people things that give them someone to blame and a way to feel good about themselves.

You fall in love again by cutting the toxic social media content.

PhilosopherShot5434 · 2024-12-28T13:35:48+00:00

Alexander Grace's content fell off pretty hard. Then again, catering to insecure misoginists probably generates more engagement.

Just get off social media bro, it is a completely unrealistic mirror of how people behave in real life and more often than not it frustrates you. Also hold yourself accountable and to higher standards. Don't take shit from women either. You'll be fine

Long_Lecture_1080 · 2024-12-28T14:00:49+00:00

Just realize it’s biologically unconditional for men and transactional for women. I think you should treat it the same way and not go overboard with gifting and making economic sacrifices for her if you do find a “good” woman. You should always lead and pursue your ambitions and she should follow. Be who you are and pursue excellence for yourself and know that she has the right to leave if she does not like it as it’s female nature due to many biological reasons and evolution.

63daddy · 2024-12-28T15:37:17+00:00

As you said, you’ve come to realize that feeling of love or infatuation is a fairly tale emotion that will at some point pass and can blind one to harsh realities.

I think it’s better to not have that blinder.

Title	How to fall in love again?
Author	avpd_squirrel
Upvotes	28
Comments	49
Date	December 28, 2024 12:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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