Would you rather be the guy who KNOWS he can leave his girl in ANY MAN’S hotel room, without even a CHANCE at even just the THOUGHT of infidelity?

Or, does reading that make you wanna be the kind of guy that those men should be deathly afraid of?

It’s nice to have “confidence” in yourself, but you know what beats “confidence,” every single time?

“COMPETENCE.”

I would much rather be the master seducer who would NEVER leave his girl in ANY man’s room (even if solely because I know there are men who’re just as COMPETENT as I am walking around out here), than to be the guy who’s “confident” enough in himself to believe that those guys aren’t a threat.

Whether it’s because you’re “confident” she’ll never leave, or because you’re confident enough not to care if she does, your “confidence” is PREY to the COMPETENT!

(If you’re having trouble picturing this, imagine being “confident” and attempting to court a girl directly after she spoke with a man who was “COMPETENT.”

Now, imagine being COMPETENT and attempting to court a girl directly after she spoke with a man who was “confident.”

It’s not about knowing that his COMPETENT SKILL can EASILY out maneuver the “confidence” you just displayed…

…it’s about being able to imagine it happening, and wondering if it’s actually true.

With the “confident” man, there’s room to beat him at his own game with a potentially better interaction.

With the COMPETENT man, the interaction never ends!

He’s trying to be “confident” so that she doesn’t wanna leave the interaction, but the other guys COMPETENCE allows him to FORCE HER TO STAY!)

Although it’s the same for the seducer, where his COMPETENCE alone gives him enough reason to believe that he’s (at least capable of having) seduced her to the point of total loyalty and devotion, while also being able to seduce any other girl he wants (beyond the girls he already has) if she were to leave, it’s his COMPETENCE that affords him to keep the girl out of other seducers hands, and it’s his COMPETENCE that enables him to CONTINUE to succeed, and that’s time and time again!

The “confident” loses his man to the seducers, and probably doesn’t even care.

The COMPETENT ARE the seducers, and it’s all they care about.

You don’t need to be “confident,” to start approaching.

You need to be COMPETENT, to get results!

(Read: if you could have one without the other, which would you choose?

Would you rather start approaching, but garner zero results?

Or would you rather get results without even having to approach?

With that being said, I just hope it’s obvious why the desire to develop COMPETENCE works much better at motivating you to succeed than the desire to develop “confidence.”)

COMPETENCE comes from exercise and practice.

“Confidence” comes from feeling like you don’t have to.

COMPETENCE leads to mastery.

“Confidence” leads to mental and emotional stability.

If you’re looking for the one, “confidence” is the key to protect YOU from guys like ME!

If you’re looking to master seduction, COMPETENCE is the key to protecting YOUR RELATIONSHIPS from GUYS LIKE US.

ALWAYS remember: a master seducer is the LAST person you’d want to leave in a room with your wife, while a fellow married man is the LAST person that any other man should have to be worried about;

Do you wish you had the “confidence” to let your girl enjoy a girls trip to Miami WITHOUT you, making you the “last person that any other man should be worried about?”

Well, then I implore you to find the one, as she definitely deserves to be with a guy like you!

Likewise, if you find yourself wishing you instead had the COMPETENCE to prefer chaining her to a bed against her “will” over letting her enjoy a girls trip to Miami without you, and especially without it making her wanna leave you?

It may sound like some devious work, but that, my friends, is what us seducers would call:

Seduction.

Only knowing which one you want could be capable of protect you from the other.

Thinking you can have both will easily leave you with neither.

With this being the main takeaway from this post, with my needing to express this being the sole reason I even created it to begin with, I implore you to understand just one thing:

It isn’t your lack of competence that drives your inaction, nor is it your lack of confidence:

It’s your inability to choose which you’re looking to achieve.

I promise

With that being said, just fucking pick one!

Here, let me help:

Tell me in the comments which one you’d choose.

(For me, personally, I’ve always preferred COMPETENCE over “confidence,” and that’s why I was able to put in the necessary work towards MASTERING SEDUCTION.

What about you?)