Women love throwing this insult at us and I understand why. They think straight masculine men are the only group of people who's sexuality is all a fascade to conform to the patriarchy's expectation of what a real man should desire. If a man likes to wear lingerie and take it up the ass, then we're supposed to accept that he's being himself and aren't even allowed to question if social conditioning played a role. But a masculine, heterosexual man who is attracted to submissive, feminine women, prefers shaved body hair and only likes genital stimulation is an insecure misogynist who's sexual preferences are a mere projection of his will to reduce women to their rightful subservient place \dramatic music plays*.

According to feminism and gender ideology, people's sexuality based on group identity is constructed as follows:

Straight men- Conforms to social expectations to proclaim attraction toward a patriarchal hyperbole of a traditional feminine woman because he is too misogynistic and homophobic to embrace his real sexuality. All sexual preferences are also connotated with an expectation that all women adhere to it or we think they are useless lesbians. Is too stupid to realize his dudebro hypermasculine fascade is repulsive to women. Large portion are closeted LGBTQ but are too afraid of being murdered for coming out and have too much internalized homophobia to do so.

Straight women- Is attracted to feminine men who vocally support feminism and reject the idea that masculinity is an inherent and real verve.

LGBTQ- Being their real selves and pursuing what they were born being attracted to. Constantly persecuted by straight men(we bash, murder, rape them and make them feel "unsafe").

There are broad efforts in mainstream scientific research to conclude the legitimacy of LGBTQ people's sexuality and consistent efforts by mainstream media to vilify all of the things straight men tend to like. Let's dismantle the claims:

"Men like shaved body hair because of pornography and media!"- Men are more attracted to hairless women because androgens stimulate the growth of body hair, which is why men have significantly more of it. How many features that one sex has in a more pronounced fashion is attractive in significance to said sex? Almost none(ie. women like musculature, tall men, hairy men. Men like large breasts, large buttocks, large hips, low musculature/slim build. All things exaggerated in sex disparity). Not to mention body hair accommodates and attracts parasites which we are programmed to avoid because it meant she was more vulnerable to illness and death during pregnancy and may be contagious to mate with. There's also a very prevailing idea that men stigmatize women for not shaving. How? By not being attracted to them, you guessed it(literally the same mindset as the Incel ideology may I add)!

https://www.brandeis.edu/writing-program/write-now/2021-2022/azevedo-ligia/index.html#:\~:text=The%20removal%20of%20body%20hair,women%20regarding%20youth%20and%20femininity.

The segment of this article the link skips you to accuses pornography and entertainment of framing men's apparent fetishization of "pre-pubescent bodies". The whole article is basically explaining how men are sex-pests who let the patriarchy construct our sexuality and harass women in to conforming to it to please us.

"Men like slim waists because media portrays an unrealistic weight goal!" Men are attracted to a high hip-to-waist ratio because wide hips signal high oestrogens and a slimmer waist is a sign if healthy weight and that she hasn't given birth yet. Which we like for obvious reasons.

"Men want virgins because the less men a woman has been with, the less abuse she has endured and is easier to manipulate to tolerate bad treatment."- Why would primal men want to impregnate a woman who has already given birth to another man's baby and is getting taken care of by him? Versus a young, fertile woman who could have babies only from us? This again, programs us to like lower body counts. It goes beyond primal though. Lower body counts mean lower chance of STD's and infidelity. It also means she likely isn't the type of woman to seek attention from men by seducing them with sex. Another uniquely modern factor is that it means she likely is a radical feminist who engages in anti-traditional behaviour for the sake of it because she thinks it hurts angry conservative men's feelings. And men are of course misogynists for wanting to avoid women who go out of their way to attempt to bother us for the sake of it.

"Men are attracted to submissive women because they see us as inferior!"- Submissive behaviour resembles the behaviour of a woman who was consenting to mate with us or already is being cared for in the primal days. She would present herself in a submissive position to be inseminated, she would rely on us for shelter, food and safety, she is much weaker, smaller and more timid than us. This is the signalling our caveman brains are getting in response to submissive behaviour. Just like women being attracted to dominant, strong, courageous men. The only difference id they deny it and we admit it.

"Men like women cosplaying schoolgirl's because they are pedophiles!"- The outfit is just sexy. Same as French maids.

Just as an extra little fact about men's liking for big fat asses, seeing as the media always portrays it as due to entertainment. A big, heavy ass counterweighs the pelvis in the backward direction so it reduces pressure on the spine when her abdomen expands from pregnancy.

In summary, women live in a fantasy world where their sexual selection is an incentive system to deprive the sexist conservative men of their affection so that those irresistable male feminists will prevail!(We're still waiting). And where men's is just a projection of our hatred of women.

You have nothing to be ashamed of if you are attracted to what I described, nor if it is the exact opposite. As long as you respect everyone's sexuality that doesn't involve children and animals. If you are a man with an effeminate man reading this, simply respect men's masculinity as inherent and not socially engineered and you'll be surprised how accepting most of us are.