Some background, it is very important. I grew up in a conservative culture. outside of America. Now I live in America and have been living for 12 years. I feel I adapted well socio economically and understand the culture.

Me and My partner probably going our separate ways although I love her so incredibly much and she means the world to me. however I discovered she had a sugqrdaddy website, that she claims never met anybody, 2 I discover she was hooking up left and right. and would hookup with random dudes anytime she and her ex break up. It kind of made me a little disgusted that she was sleeping with dudes she don't even know and give them her address after couple text messages.

2) I hate how everything about our personal life is told to her sister and girlfriends. even when I tell her keep it between us. my life is an aquarium. they know all my business and she got upset when I get secretive.

I spoke to many friends mostly girls, to get their perspective. and according to them I am a caveman, a dinosaur. they said her past is okey and normal and it is very insensitive and creepy of me to get upset about it. I should accept her because her mistakes made her who she is?

2, they said it's totally normal for her to share our life and there is nothing really I can do about it. they all do it and I have to accept it.

Am I BEING too much for getting hurt after finding out, she hooked with her coworkers and random dudes? should I just swallow my pride and pretend it's all good and I am happy with it? am I really that backward? I want to hear from people who are American and grew up in this culture. because apparently it is normal and some men told me... "if we broke up she is single and she can sleep with other dudes, then takes back ?" and I am crazy to think that's wild?