Hi everyone, how are you? Yesterday I went to a huge party and approached several women. I didn't get any kisses, but something better happened. I discovered why I wasn't getting results. Now that I've discovered the mistakes I was making, I can correct them at the next party. In this text, I'm going to talk about my night and the mistakes that made me fail, as well as the things I did right. Here, you'll receive some light and not make the same mistakes I made. Please read until the end. This will make you stop getting rejected.

I approached several women at the party and all of them asked for kisses, for example.

I said, "Have you kissed anyone today?"

She said, "~Not yet."

I said, "Do you want to kiss?"

She said "~No thanks

I used some kind of pick-up line like this to all the women I approached, and they all said no, including one who didn't even look at me and kept her eyes straight, seeming to be bothered by hearing me speak

So I decided to change the strategy and use something that had worked at the previous party, extending my hand so the woman would take it and allow me to approach her. Previously, at another party, this had worked, I would extend my hand and the woman would take it and come closer, but at this party it didn't work, they simply wouldn't hold my hand back

A problem I faced at this party was knowing which woman I could approach because for some reason that I don't understand and that makes me angry, women who are in a relationship or even married go to parties. This is very strange. In my opinion, parties are a place for single people, only single people should go because they are in an environment where all the men are looking for a woman. It doesn't make sense for a guy who is dating to take his girlfriend to an environment where there are several guys who want to kiss her. someone

Because of this, I couldn't tell which women were safe to approach, since some had rings on their fingers, and I couldn't tell if it was a ring the woman was wearing for aesthetics or if it was an engagement ring. Some women had several rings, like 2 on each hand, which made it difficult to tell if it was an engagement ring or just for aesthetics.

In addition, there were closed groups at the party where there was 1 guy and 3 other women. How would I know if this guy was a friend of these women or the boyfriend of one of them? And if he was the boyfriend of one of them, how would I know which one?

If I lived in a country where if I approached a woman who had a boyfriend, and she said she was dating, that would be fine. However, the chances of you talking to a woman and her dating and causing a fight are huge. That's why I think it's annoying for people who are dating to go to parties where guys are eager to meet, kiss and have sex with women.

Because of this, I could only approach women who didn't have anything on their fingers and who didn't have any guys around.

I knew that if I approached women with a 5/10 or 4/10 rating I could get a kiss but that wasn't what I wanted.

After being rejected a few times, it was getting late, so I decided to change something, which made me understand the real way to get a woman.

I had been rejected from every approach and hadn't gotten any attention.

Until I met a woman who I considered one of the prettiest. She had beautiful bangs, was dressed in blue, and had some beautiful tattoos. I had seen her before, but I didn't approach her because she was too pretty, so I was more nervous about approaching her.

But then I plucked up the courage and approached her. But unlike the others, I approached her, put my hand on her arm, and she started to wonder, but then smiled. So I apologized and said,

I said: ~ What does this tattoo say?

She said: ~it is written in another language, translating to Unforgettable

The first time she said it I hadn't heard it so I got closer and asked her to repeat it, then she got close to my ear and said "~it means Unforgettable"

This showed that she invested in the conversation because she took the trouble to get close with her face so I could speak in her ear, and she also got close to speak in my ear, something that the other women I approached didn't do

BUT I MADE THE MISTAKE AGAIN, SHE SAID IT MEANT UNFORGETTABLE, AND I WAS STUPID AND SAID "~Do you want to have something unforgettable?"

Then she simply said no and ended the intention

At that moment I realized "ok asking for a kiss doesn't work, what works is talking about something about her"

So after that, I met a goth girl, she didn't have an incredible body, in fact you couldn't tell because she was all in black, like a good goth girl

So knowing that I should talk to her first

I approached her and had this conversation:

I said: Hi, are you goth?

She said: Yes, I am

I said: What bands do you listen to?

She said: I listen to everything haha

I said: Have you ever listened to Avenged Sevenfold (a metal band that I really like)

She said: I like them too

I said: What music do you listen to?

So she may have understood something else but she said: I like sertanejo.

(Brazilian musical style that talks about suffering for love, and about life in the countryside, it's like country)

So I said: old-school?

She said: yes

I said: romantic ones?

She says: yes

So I, with my genius

MADE THE SAME MISTAKE AND SAID: then let's kiss and make a song about it, and at the same time she said no :(

DUMB DUMB DUMB WHY DID I MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE

this goth girl was paying attention to me, she turned her face away from me whenever she wasn't listening, she got closer, she invested in the conversation, and I destroyed everything FOR THE SECOND TIME

Then I said I'm leaving, but I'm not at all sad, because I learned something valuable

The lesson is: Going up and asking for a kiss directly, with some pick-up line, doesn't work, it has worked with some women at other parties but it only works with less attractive women, I came to the conclusion that to kiss a beautiful woman at a party you have to build a structure, you have to build comfort, attraction and seduction. The beautiful women at the party want to talk first, they want to feel comfortable, both women who First, I talked instead of asking for a kiss. They were extremely reciprocal, so from now on I'm just going to talk and then escalate the interaction and then move on to something more intimate. If I can talk and build a good relationship, I'll be able to make the woman feel safe leaving the club with me.

Another mistake I noticed that night is that you shouldn't approach women when their back is turned and poke them on the shoulder. That's annoying and bothers women. The correct way is to approach them from the front or from the side.

Besides that, I saw several guys being rejected, and they all asked for a kiss. And by the way, those guys who were rejected were good-looking. So, women really want you to talk and build something.

I had fun and learned a lot that night. Next time, I'll do it differently.

I hope this story helps you!