This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize you

Icy_Factor_100 · 2025-03-05T00:17:39+00:00

"nice guy" is a way to disqualify unattractive men. If you're attractive, they'll call you sweet and caring

TKD1989 · 2025-03-05T02:50:08+00:00

Nice guys are also vilified by feminists who say that they have "ulterior motives" while they blatantly ignore any bad signs from bad guys because they think that bad guys are more "honest." And you wonder why how many feminists tend to also be single moms.

g1455ofwater · 2025-03-05T04:20:33+00:00

Nice guys are conscientious and the world is way more enjoyable living around conscientious people.

mrkpxx · 2025-03-05T10:30:29+00:00

Dr. Robert Glover

Nice Guys are hard to please.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjHrowRGCMs

Nice Guys believe there is something wrong with them and therefore try to be what they think others want them to be.

If I do this, I will

be respected, loved and desired by women
be treated the same way I am by others.
be able to live a problem-free life.

It is possible to bring self-respect into your life, giving up is not an option.

Symptoms

- Are givers, repairers and caretakers (without a mandate)

- Seek recognition

- Avoid conflicts

- Hide mistakes

- Believe in the right way

(Loss of control, everything I do is wrong, if I do something it has to be perfect)

- Suppress feelings

- Be different from father

- Prefer dealing with women

- Suppress needs

- Partner becomes the center of attention

very negative

- Manipulate, lie and hide (once is never enough)

- Compartmentalize, dissociate

- Hidden contracts

- Live passively, aggressively

- Are isolated

- At risk of addiction

- Problems setting boundaries

- Angry

- Want to help (unasked)

- Not very successful, play to avoid losing

- Sexual problems that they deny (partner is a rough diamond until it fails)

- Signal virtue

- "I wish he would say no sometimes"

ReceptionInformal749 · 2025-03-05T12:57:57+00:00

Nice guys term is negative and nice girls is positive, see where it's heading?

Naive-Ad1268 · 2025-03-05T18:01:52+00:00

Thanks man. Even men say I am an idiot but thing is that I trust all and I love all.

CarryAccomplished777 · 2025-03-07T16:55:45+00:00

The only differences between a nice guy and a real man are money and power. If you gave an Incel, someone who truely hates this world and everyone in it, a trillion Dollar, he would suffocate from the amount of women he'd get.

Thememeboy18 · 2025-03-06T20:31:38+00:00

Nah f@ck that. I'll never be a "nice guy" again. It only led to being used and treated like dirt. I'd rather treat a girl like garbage and know why she left (newsflash they dont) then be kind and wonder why good behavior is being punished. But you do have a point. Being a "Good man" is a good thing and being emotionally resilient is a good trait to have

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2025-03-05T02:52:12+00:00

👍

The_SHUN · 2025-03-07T07:06:54+00:00

Depends on the kind of “nice”, I wouldn’t call guys that practice basic decency and respect as “nice guy”, those that do things for others in expense of their well being, yes.

sj20442 · 2025-03-06T06:59:59+00:00

What the fuck? That's not what a niceguy is. A "niceguy" is a man who pretends to be nice to a woman because he wants to get in her pants, and when he realizes she's not going to sleep with him, he immediately drops the act and becomes nasty and spiteful, believing that she has led him on. He is a misogynist who feels that treating a woman like a person entitles him to sex, and when he doesn't get it, he feels scammed and wronged.

JustJ42 · 2025-03-05T13:59:04+00:00

I think you’re misunderstanding the term “nice-guy”. There’s a fine line between being a guy who is nice and caring and being a “nice-guy”. The latter is a guy who pretends to be sweet and caring and “nice” up until he gets rejected by a woman and all is sudden starts being mean to her, thus showing the niceness was more of a façade. So no one is making fun of actually nice guys. They’re poking fun at guys who go claim to be nice and different, only to not be that

Title	This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize you
Author	Gleichstellung4084
Upvotes	75
Comments	29
Date	March 4, 2025 11:19 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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