My girl fights with me once in a while about me posting my swimming photos. I have a private instagram with less than 250 followers and all of them I know personally but still she have a problem that I post shirtless pics and have female friends.

In the starting I was actually angry but I noticed a pattern that after fighting really well with me and which results in the conclusion of break up, she starts acting normal and keeps texting me again and again and wants me to act normal as she's doing.

Now I feel like she just wants that essence of excitement in the relationship and she extracts it from such fights.