Am I overthinking this? A Girl with BF and I chatted for a while casually. But gave me a very very affectionate hug when I left

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SuperCat2023 · 2025-03-18T03:59:08+00:00

Nah F that. I wouldn't try anything with someone who's flirting right next to their partner. Whether she's attracted or just playing mind games with her boyfriend. Whatever the reason is it won't end good for you

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-18T03:34:58+00:00

You might have a chance, but realize it is an uphill battle. She might have been trying to get a reaction out of her bf. Girls do stuff like that to test their bf all the time. She might be on the way out with him because they don’t try that stuff as often with guys they really respect.

Ultimately it depends on the vibe you and her had. A hug generally means nothing, but given the context it is difficult to say.

Honestly I’d say the likely answer depends how strong your game is. If you have strong game I’m more likely to believe she is into you. But if you have little experience then this is probably fools gold.

Cheers,

Coach Sly

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-18T05:46:44+00:00

Girls like to mess around and test the limits, it gives them that emotional thrill that they constantly pursue in life. It doesn't mean she wants to go all the way, such interaction presents them with some value as well. She may like you, but she also likes her boyfriend and doesn't want to break up.

Charge36 · 2025-03-18T05:33:52+00:00

Overthinking. She might be a little attracted to you if you're a good looking guy and you guys had an engaging interaction, but unless shit is on the rocks with her current boyfriend she's not about to leave him over a single interaction like this

Brutal_De1uxe · 2025-03-18T05:56:00+00:00

She is taken so move on.

Title	Am I overthinking this? A Girl with BF and I chatted for a while casually. But gave me a very very affectionate hug when I left
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Date	March 18, 2025 3:18 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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