Ex wants the house, I've already filed. Mediation is in a few weeks. I also want the house if I can get it, but its not an end all be all to my happiness.

I feel like I don't have a safe place. I lock the bedroom door at night, but still. She works from home. She's always there. I get no respite. We are being cordial. She is trying to hoover me back in. Any tips?