I met this 23 yr old exchange student. We talked alot and hit it off. She texts me every morning asking what are we going to do that day. We have long chats at night. Well, I know she is also chatting with other dudes at night as well. She tells me when she hangs out with them because she messages me to tell me, "this guy is so boring, lets hang out after".

Now, she plays the "Im not like other girls" angle. She says she is smart, is a homebody, likes older men and wants to get married and have kids some day. She also doesnt want to hook up with anyone because she just got out of a relationship. She is VERY careful about whitewashing her past but some stuff has come through. I think maybe its a cultural thing because Italians are more traditional.

She smokes lots of pot. Her first boyfriend was 38 when she was 15. All other boyfriends after that were at least 10+ yrs older. She was a plaything at a rich guys house for a year. She is not smart. Just a little more experienced than other women. She doesnt understand computers, or politics. She is a typical fashion obsessed attention whore. I could tell from all of this she seeks male attention constantly.

I see this and start teasing her. I tell her about that scientific study where beautiful men and women dont get hit on as much as regular looking people, then said she gets hit on a lot since shes been here. Or when a guy didnt reply to her invite, I asked her if that was the first time she was ever told no by a man.

So the other night she invites me to her place. I go and she was drinking the whole time I was there. I met her french roommate and Pakistani friend. We talk and dance a little. The other girls are innocent and the Italian was just out of sync with the convo, like she was in need of a validation fix. So she shows me a tie some guy gave to her in exchange for a kiss. She said she went to his hotel room but it was just a kiss because he was ugly (I doubt it was just a kiss) I sleep in the guest room that night. Everyone goes to bed except she comes into my room to smoke out of my window. Im in just my underwear and she knew this. So I go over and we talk a little. She is obviously tired and still drinking. I make a move and go in for the kiss. She turns her head and I shit you not, mumbles "but you dont have a tie..."

I brush it off. I told her I would rather kiss her when she is sober. I kick her out and go to sleep. So next day I am flirting and teasing her via txt. She gets miffed and asks "tell me why I should sleep with you". So I'm not going to justify a pity fuck to her. I told her I dont tell anyone what they should do. If she cant think of her own reason then she shouldnt.

And so she comes back with "it was a rhetorical question!" and something about she knows the reason she does things and if I had been paying attention then I would too. She asks me if I know why I do things and why I thought she would want to kiss me. Instead of saying "because you told me your price" I just joked and said its because I do what I want. She then asks if I respect her. I have not written her back. I refuse to grovel or apologize like her beta bitch. Because I honestly dont, and I think she can sense that.

But my dilemma is I want to bang her hot friends now. She is giving me the silent treatment and who knows what she is telling them. They all just met a week ago so maybe that will help my case because they dont know her well.

So thoughts? Criticisms? ideas? bros?

edit: Thanks guys for your input. Keep the advice coming. She just messaged me back apologizing for being so busy.