If Hetero Relationships Are So Bad, Why Do Women Go Back for More? A new straight-studies course treats male-female partnerships as the real deviance.

AntiFeministLib · 2025-04-16T14:13:53+00:00

It's a long read

hitting the socially liberal among us like a Saratoga ice-water facial plunge.

I'm amazed that anybody who subscribes to the hate movement, Feminism, can call themselves socially liberal with a straight face. Since when did liberals go in for sexist, bigotry ?

“I think it’s really a tough pill to swallow for many straight women. That the hope that men were getting better with each generation — that, you know, as time went on, they would be more committed to gender justice or equity. That it simply did not come true.”

As I've posted before. I play a game where I run a clock and read a feminism space to see how long it is before i find man hating. It've barely got beyond 90s so far. Women, really, REALLY, need to take a look at themselves.

We have decades of evidence, coming out of feminist research, that heterosexuality often fails women

Yet none of it cited in this article....

As the token lesbian in many of the small-group meetups, Ward seemed to draw women toward her for straight confession. Their romantic relationships with men were characterized by resentments: over the crushing unequal division of domestic labor

In the one breath trad wife with a man who pays for everything, and she looks after the house is bad, in the second breath domestic labour is unequal when they both earn. Pick a swim lane!

Absorbing straight women’s private complaints and teaching women’s-studies courses year after year — continually revisiting the facts of domestic violence, rape, inequities in child-rearing and the home, marital unhappiness and antipathy — had made it very clear: Straight women’s lives, she wrote, are “very, very hard.”

Honestly this is insane. If you sell the myth to women of "having it all", the career, the domestic goddess house, the amazing children IT'S IMPOSSIBLE to achieve that. When you believe the hype and aim for that then of course, things get difficult. Feminism sold a lie. You can NOT have it all. Pick one.

I stopped reading after this. It was just pure insanity.

MRAFacts2 · 2025-04-16T07:24:14+00:00

This article is really long,but good god the misandry and heterophobia. I've added some main points:

It resolves around sociologist Jane Ward a Professor at UC Santa Barbara who teaches "Straight Studies" (formally called Critical Heterosexuality Studies)
All her students seem to be queer and have "sympathy" for straight people.
She believes "heterosexuality" is something that is upheld by the "patriarchy" similar to the feminists of the 70s and 80s.
Talks about how Gen Z men are awful, voted Republican and are "influenced" by Andrew Tate. Poor women who thought men would get better with each generation are disappointed.
Women are now going through "heteropessimism". Heterosexual love is like a eating disorder.
Straight women's lives are very very hard. It never gets better.
"Straight culture" is the default in government policies, healthcare, and hollywood.
Women will finally restort to "heterofatalism" and "heteroresignation".
She urges sexuality is more of a choice, most women are straight due to culture not due to biology.
Women in straight relationships should learn from queer people.
Talks about Naomi Wolf's "radical heterosexuality", wome nshould be financially independent, marriage needs to be abolished and straight men mandated to disavow their "patriarchal privilege".

AigisxLabrys · 2025-04-16T07:34:04+00:00

You are coping, coping and seething

You just can’t accept what you’re seeing

Yes, you’re coping, coping and seething

The truth, it is scalding

And now you are malding

And coping, coping so hard

Coping, coping and seething

eternal_kvitka1817 · 2025-04-16T15:36:28+00:00

I'm happy to be gay

Fearless_Ad4244 · 2025-04-16T21:10:53+00:00

As with heteronormativity this is another thing in the lgbt framework to make homosexuality the norm and heterosexuality the fringe. When you go against evolution that's what happens.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-04-17T07:06:14+00:00

Only a specific demographic of people think hetero relationships are bad. And those people don't tend to be all that into the opposite sex. People like this:

"Lesbian Feminist Monique Wittig argued that heterosexuality is not innate but rather a social and political construct. In her groundbreaking essays, she proposed that heterosexuality functions as a societal institution designed to maintain gender divisions and enforce male dominance, under Patriarchy".

Their opinions don't matter.

Title	If Hetero Relationships Are So Bad, Why Do Women Go Back for More? A new straight-studies course treats male-female partnerships as the real deviance.
Author	MRAFacts2
Upvotes	58
Comments	11
Date	April 16, 2025 7:08 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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