So it's been for the past 5 months now, every single day he comes home in a mood. I try to be there for him and offer him guidance and support but it's as if I say all the wrong things. He comes home, buries himself into his phone barely acknowledges me or our 2 year old and just sits there and goes upstairs. He hasn't put out toddler to bed for months now and when he tries out little one point blank refuses him to put her to bed as she's so used to me. I'm also pregnant and I feel like I'm expected to do everything around the house and with our toddler because he hates his job. He's so caught up with work and can't switch off once he's out of there it's really affecting us. It's so draining though when it's constantly every day, I could have had a good/bad day but I can't tell him about it as he doesn't want to hear about my day etc. it just gets draining without sounding selfish etc. There's support and help from people as well as myself and he shoots down everything, it's as if he doesn't help himself!! I'm just at a loss now.