If it's obvious a girl is mad at you, should you ask why? If not, how do you go about fixing the situation?

Archwinger · 2015-10-16T18:55:46+00:00

Do you own a magic cell phone? Can your dick reach through your cell phone and fuck her? No?

Then this woman is worth one text a day to keep the wheels greased, if that. Unless you're going to be in her town or vice versa, in which case you'd then use a few texts to set up the logistics of a meet. If you're spending more than 5 minutes a day on fuck buddies far away from you, you're not using your time effectively.

As a more general note, if a woman is acting upset, you should completely ignore it, make fun of her, make her laugh, and if she's being a bitch toward you, leave/go no contact. Then the next time you initiate anything, act like nothing happened.

Never validate a woman's bad behavior by recognizing it and providing her with attention. Her feelings are her problem. It's not your job to fix her problem. It's your job to be you, be awesome, and she'll come around.

But not this woman specifically. You're wasting time jerking off over Skype when you should be sending one text a day, tops, and fucking actual women near you.

RedPillJax · 2015-10-16T18:37:29+00:00

Do nothing. Move on. You live in another state, why are you talking to her?

Develop some abundance, friend. You're a solid orbiter right now.

king_of_red_alphas · 2015-10-16T21:04:42+00:00

While I agree with the sentiment here that you should get your fixation on this girl in check before moving on, I would wager every single guy calling you a chump with oneitis has or is currently trying to take some chick.

Everybody acts like the end result of TRP is that you sit back and are such a bad ass that 7's and 8's jump on your dick. And that they would "next" Jessica Alba if she didn't text back in 3 minutes.

Nonsense.

You have to "work" to generate these leads. And sometimes you have to work to keep them. It's up to you which leads are worth what amount of effort and at what point you are barking up the wrong tree.

If this chick is being sexual with you, this isn't a dead end like people are implying. She sees you as a sexual person. She doesn't see you as a castrated beta (yet)

The issue here is how do you make your next chess move without falling into the beta zone which would be VERY easy to do right now.

That, I'm not sure. One school of thought says just lay the cards on the table and let her next herself if she responds negatively. The other school is that you (act like) don't give a fuck and hope she'll come sniffing around.

Personally - I would make it a point to get my preoccupation with get in check via another lead. Then contact her and get a feel for her attitude. If she gives you overt attitude then simply say "hey you seem to be distracted / upset so maybe we should talk later" or something along those lines.

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