LTR Sexuality Slowing

nuesuh · 2015-10-17T12:33:32+00:00

Imagine she is fucking someone else. Does this upset you? If not, propose an open relationship. Then you can go dick other girls while still enjoying your LTR, and she can start / keep fucking dudes on the side without feeling bad about it.

If it does enrage you, dump her.

kingofpoplives · 2015-10-17T13:57:38+00:00

This is normal to a certain extent. It is what an LTR is. How little sex are we actually talking about?

I recommend you do what you gotta do to keep having sex at least a couple times a week. If it drops to much less than that it could mean trouble.

4delicioustreats · 2015-10-17T18:22:54+00:00

I recommend you act with masculine values here. Honesty, honor, intrepid, and justice. If she's been honest and good to you, don't go fucking around on her, that's just as bad as the CC sluts we rant about on here. Good women will often be very interested in your best interest if it means keeping you, you don't need different pussies, but you do need sexual satisfaction.

If youre not into the monogamy thing or you just want to spread your seed far and wide, then tell her and hold frame. But honest about your bottom line and don't accept less.

lionofthejungle · 2015-10-17T15:26:39+00:00

See hookers. They will keep you pleased and will keep things confidential/drama-free - it's their business to do so.

chloe1204 · 2015-10-17T18:36:58+00:00

This is probably going to happen in any relationship you have. The novelty has worn off and you are bored of having sex with the same woman. This is common problem in 2015 when people are used to having the option of lots of sexual partners and it's seen as socially acceptable. Pandora's box opened with the sexual revolution. Staying faithful to the same person for years has never been more difficult.

chief_slap_ahoe · 2015-10-17T10:20:04+00:00

Remember the old saying "that if she isn't fucking you, she is fucking someone" Women are just as sexual as men. She is attracted to other just like you with other women. If she isn't in to the sex anymore than you are no longer giving her the tingles down under. If you're not, it's much easier for her to get them with someone else. She may she you as her BETA-BUX and not her ALPHA. If that's the case she may branch-swing or step out for strange. You know AWALT. Beware of girls night out in this stage of your relationship.

Any relationship longer than a couple of years takes a lot of work from both sides. Head over to the married redpill if you want to stay in this LTR

RedBigMan · 2015-10-17T10:39:13+00:00

At this stage of your relationship you should be looking for any and all 'red flags' as well as past 'red flags' behavior. Women do not stay in a LTR for 6 years unless she's angling for the promotion from GF to Wifey and we all know the best advice TRP ever has to give don't we? DON'T GET MARRIED! because if it ain't broke why fix it? Also why give her the opportunity to take half of all your shit and force you to pay her for possibly the rest of her life?

You could always try doing what women do in this situation and suggest the open relationship but be prepared for the fact that women are jealous cunts and when you start getting some pussy on the side that she'll go all nuclear on the relationship.

Title	LTR Sexuality Slowing
Author	CrazyBoutSex
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	October 17, 2015 8:18 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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