I’ve been reading content about flirting and so on and I can say that I have been able to successfully kiss the girls that I have taken out. However I have not been able to move from kissing to the bed. Some situations have been mostly my fault for not advancing.

However the last girl, I didnt know how to escalate, we kissed (we were on the beach like at 3am). I touched her ass, kissed her neck, tried to touch her a little more but she grabbed my hand like making me Understand that it was enough.

Any advise to keep escalating?

PS: I work with her but we rarely work together, we went out with more coworkers after our first full shift together and that end up happening.