How many of you had your wife do a full stop if she was the one initiating and moving forward with the divorce? The first month all I wanted was her to return. But everything shifted when she filed. I felt abandoned and all of the sudden ready to see myself and the kids after it all. But now 2 months into the process she is beginning to be kinder, showing a little more of her old self in way of how she talks to me. Idk. I’m starting to wonder if she’s having doubts. And I’m starting to feel like I don’t know if I would for sure want her to. I’m just wondering how many times this happened to you that has similar spot to me of 16 years married with 4 young kids and no infidelity or abuse. Just a wife that fell out of love and possibly had a midlife crisis at 36. Thanks!