Hey guys, I want to get to know women (and eventually find a girlfriend) but I have had no success so far. I dated like 7 women (2 of these went to a 3rd meeting) but not any of these went really further. Everyone liked the date it was "friendly" but often they said there isn't a connection. I think the main reason is that I dated women who go on trips often and are outside 90% of time and I'm very much the opposite. All my hobbies are indoor, I do workouts, coding and studying a lot. I'm happy with that, but I feel like women don't like that or maybe don't like the introvert and quiet character I have.

So my question is now where can I meet women firstly and where can I meet women who are attracted to me secondly.

I met the women over dating apps (4), Instagram (2), one over snapchat (1) which was pretty random because she were in same uni as me. Outside I asked out 2 but one had a boyfriend and the other no time.

I feel like I do so many things but still it's so hard.. meanwhile I see others who I feel like do barely anything, meet one and they are in a relationship:/

I don't want to force myself to go into clubs or doing sports in clubs. I can do cold approaching but I have had no success with that either.