What to do at bars/clubs in Europe?

Anonymous-Man-2024 · 2025-06-07T08:55:32+00:00

Europe is big and cultures differ. Where exactly do you intend to go?.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-06-07T09:11:09+00:00

There are two types of clubs in Europe:

One you can talk, and the other is too loud to talk.

The "too loud to talk" clubs are more popular. They have more women and more dancing. Go there and dance with some ladies. Then ask them if they want to check out another place nearby. Don't go for contact info in the club - people would like to forget you after. So just go straight for the lay and invite them home after you've built some trust and attraction

HappySprinter · 2025-06-07T09:17:05+00:00

Prague and Budapest are the easiest places in the world to meet women. Don’t overthink it. If you see a girl you like literally ask two questions - hey do you speak English? and are you from here? conversation from there literally spills out. Your accent will do wonders

Sherman140824 · 2025-06-07T11:02:19+00:00

Try not to shout or make loud remarks about people you see.

DeadDog_N_Space · 2025-06-07T13:05:49+00:00

Getting rejected is part of the learning experience. You get better at approaching women by approaching women.

Yes the woman does miss out if she rejects me, that is definitely not a lie.

You don’t have to go around the club approaching every woman if you’re halfway decent at game. Also, I don’t stay in one area the whole time talking to one woman. I approach, have a short conversation and leave. The next time around, I extend the conversation and if I’m getting signs of attraction, I’ll go for their number. Because I’m good at building attraction, the woman will normally offer her number to me.

A hot girl is going to be approached by multiple attractive men that are not afraid to fail and that shows confidence which is a top trait women love. She is not going to approach you because she doesn’t have to.

gagafashion · 2025-06-07T19:25:27+00:00

Depends on the country. Romania and Hungary -> very beautiful and responsive women.

Get in the mood and just approach. Have fun. Aim for instagrams. Get to know all the people working in the club (makes your status higher).

My preferred way for game is to build a social circle + show value with instagram.

VulcanSpark · 2025-06-08T00:04:44+00:00

stop speaking english, its un attractive

do_the_hard_work · 2025-06-10T07:41:06+00:00

Drink at bars, drink & dance at clubs

epimpstyle · 2025-06-07T09:55:12+00:00

I just don’t really know what to say in an approach

Telling you what to do will look scripted, but it's much better that way instead of nothing.

A trick I sometimes use when I stand up or while walking up to a woman in a bar is to deliberately spill a little of my drink (I make sure she looks at me in that moment). It looks accidental, but in reality, I do it to create a forced opener and create a context to talk about, it is easy because at this step you and the woman have a topic to talk about. For example: 'Hey, have you seen that? I spilled my precious drink on my precious shirt when I took a step toward you! I take it as a good sign. A few days ago, I was in XYZ... and... [insert a short funny story related to drinks/bar]..."

Either she smiles/laughs or gives no reaction, then try again with, 'That's funny, because you look like my math teacher who had that exact [smiley/serious] expression. Are you a math teacher too?'

At this step, you can create another topic for conversation: 'Are you a cashier? No way! I have a friend who told me about his ex, who was a cashier like you, and he said... [insert another short funny story]...'

So, think about 3-4 short, funny stories and include them naturally in the conversation. All you need is a reaction, and you can continue, or if you see it's not a good reaction, simply leave.

You need to find out who she is here with, where she is from, how she will get home, if she is free later (this will be an insta-date).... if no chance of an insta-date, take her number (instagram/facebook ) ... now you leave because you want to talk/meet some friends or whatever reason you want to close and leave (with her number!)

when to approach

It's better and much easier when there's eye-contact, as I said above. If there's no eye-contact, it's a bit weird for a beginner.

how to escalate

It will take a whole chapter to explain the escalation process, but in the beginning, don't worry about it and be happy if after 10 minutes you are still in the conversation with a woman. If you don't read the social cues and escalate, it will not be a wise move; however, if you do not escalate when you see all kinds of small hints, that's not a good sign either. The core idea is to take two steps forward and one step back. This way, it will not be too much, but you will achieve your goal, or at least know when to stop.

shakespearediznuts · 2025-06-07T09:15:26+00:00

Enjoy your night (this should be your priority, the golden number one rule)
Do not approach (every guy is doing it but you're the one who has nothing to prove or to chase, only if the girl is giving obvious signs of interest like smiling or touching you by "accident")
Get approached
Score

Thank me later.

AlbFighter · 2025-06-07T09:02:14+00:00

For starters have a couple of drinks to lighten up your mood and try to approach and have a conversation before asking for instagram on the first try.

Title	What to do at bars/clubs in Europe?
Author	Independent-Virus146
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Date	June 7, 2025 8:40 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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