This is craaaaazy

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-07-11T09:19:02+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Premium_Button · 2025-07-11T02:33:59+00:00

Try going to a strip club a few times. Cute (and not so cute) girls will approach you and talk to you. Politely decline the ones that immediately ask if you wanna go for a private dance with them with no small talk, or say you'd like to get to know a bit more about them first.

Decent way of getting used to being in the presence of and talking to hot girls.

If they spent a good while talking to you, be a decent human being and pay for at least a dance or two. And tip.

Can get very expensive very fast if you fall in love with a stripper. (Don't do that and don't ask me how I know).

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-10T18:53:32+00:00

Practice and just get used to the experience of being more sociable. And if you still have these kinds of problems, seek help/therapy. The thought of women should not make you feel ill long term.

JackSquirts · 2025-07-10T22:29:48+00:00

Exposure therapy. Anything that gives you anxiety can be overcome by slowly exposing yourself to it. Afraid of heights? Climb a ladder until you're uncomfortable. Stand there until you normalize. The next day, do the same thing. Repeat until that run isn't a big deal anymore. Then step up another rung or two, repeat until you're not bothered.

Same with women. Start by talking to everyone - strangers. I find the best way is to lead with a compliment (in the long run, this isn't the best for game, but can be totally ok if you play it right). "Hey man, love that shirt." Say it's a band you like, then you might follow up with "what's your favorite song/album?" Get used to making small talk, the more situationally observational the better.

Once you're not afraid of just chatting up random strangers, move on to specifically talking to women you're attracted to, BUT, you're not hitting on them. Not to say you can't, but understand that's not your intention. That's the pressure of the top of the ladder, not another rung or two. That said, if you find yourself chatting them up and it's going well, take that next step and go for some flirting.

Flirting is basically how men play with women they want to fuck. Be playful. Think of how you fuck with your friends, now turn that down to about 25%. You call them out when they say dumb shit, you make fun of something they say, etc. Do the same, but keep it based on things she's not real likely to care about. Tease her about a comment, not her outfit (that's another rung of comfort and skill).

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-07-10T18:48:38+00:00

You fear rejection and simply need to desensitize by constant exposure and experience.

hwheheei · 2025-07-10T18:53:11+00:00

take a deep breath

Traditional_Guava639 · 2025-07-10T20:25:19+00:00

Practice practice practice.

GameDevWannabe81 · 2025-07-10T20:54:45+00:00

Meditate.

Enough_Scratch5579 · 2025-07-11T00:06:33+00:00

I've been chasing poon since I could get hard. My heart still beats out of my chest when I ask a girl out! You gotta just embrace it , and honestly it makes you feel alive

Title	This is craaaaazy
Author	ArgsKwargs3131
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	July 10, 2025 6:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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