Possible encounter with ex tomorrow

Shaigan · 2015-10-27T14:13:47+00:00

You're an idiot, she's your ex, so why do you even give a fuck? I'd avoid situations like this. Go read the sidebar and lift, seems like you need to move on to better things.

Apexk9 · 2015-10-27T14:18:00+00:00

She dumped you eh? You still like her don't you? Because if the answer is no and no you wouldn't give a fuck.

If it hurts to see her don't go but don't say she is the reason it'll make you butt hurt.

Also how the fuck is it a study session when booze is involved?

Stayinghereforreal · 2015-10-27T14:18:27+00:00

Sounds like you don't want to have a study session with your ex. So don't. It sounds more like you want her to come over to have sex, which is not her plan. Sounds to me like you are setting yourself up to make an ass of yourself.

I'll make 1 condition for her if she wanna spend time with me which is turning off her phone.

If people are actually studying, phones are ignored, except for emergency calls.

Also, if she pisses me off by mentioning her bf I'll leave immedietely.

You sound like a 15 year old. You apparently are not over this woman, and thus you need to just avoid her, not show up with "conditions" and the plan to stomp out the door if she mentions her current lover.

1NV0K3R · 2015-10-27T14:22:10+00:00

i was thinking ill make 1 condition

Butt hurt.

if she wanna spend time with me which is turning off her phone

Super butt hurt

also if she pisses me off by mentioning her bf

Triple threat butt hurt.

Shit man it's situations like these where you should go, ignore your ex (except for a very polite "Hi") and then you fucking game every other girl there and be super cool and awesome and fucking bauss.

But you won't. Cause butthurt.

youcantdenythat · 2015-10-27T17:23:58+00:00

First, you need to become more self aware. Secondly you need to be a more decisive man instead of just floating through life.

If you have strong feelings about someone, like your ex, avoid contact with her. I don't care if her friend is HB10. Avoid your ex like the plague until your strong feelings subside.
If you think your ex likes to play with your feelings, avoid her close friends. They will gang up on you.
If there is alcohol, this will make all of your feelings even stronger! Avoid it in situations where you may be around your ex.

In case this wasn't clear: DON'T GO STUDY WITH YOUR EX'S BEST FRIEND! Hell, don't study with any girl. Don't drink and study. Either study alone or find a guy friend that is smarter than you so that you become a fucking boss at schoolwork.

Then after your studies are done and you hit the gym, go find some other chicks to party with.

full_package · 2015-10-27T16:20:29+00:00

If you'd have abundance mentality, I'd say sure go for it. Plate your ex and chat up her friend. Since you don't, avoid her. Text her friend "Change of plans, can't be there" and leave it at that. Don't reply to follow up questions and laugh it off if it ever comes up face to face.

Like others said keep it brief when you do need to communicate with your ex. "Hi", then switch your attention to others in your group. Imagine her to be 300lbs landwhale that you ignore, but need to be polite around, if she's in the same social circle you are in. Anyway, your best bet in short term is to acquire other women outside of this circle.

Crimsonman0 · 2015-10-27T20:56:39+00:00

Don't go, you still have oneitis and seeing her isn't gonna help, just come up with some random excuse and study by yourself

[deleted] · 2015-10-27T18:38:52+00:00

Bro, do you even read the side-bar?

Title	Possible encounter with ex tomorrow
Author	Shaigan
Upvotes	2
Comments	33
Date	October 27, 2015 2:06 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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