32M, Brown guy, Traveller. I love to visit different places, talk to people, make friends.

I meet a lot of people and exchange instagram. But I have a rule, I maintain around 100-150 followers, but make sure all these followers are those whom I can just DM and talk whenever I want. I continuously prune unresponsive accounts or those whom I might have shared the instagram, but we never had a proper conversation or became friends. A good amount of people I meet are Europeans (sometimes North Americans).

Following are my observations when it comes to DMing/talking to these girls on insta after the holiday is over.

  1. Those who I have pulled or atleast kissed : Quickest reply, will talk normally and you can discuss stuff with them and chat.

  2. Those whom I strictly interacted as friends : Not replying ASAP, but they do reply.

  3. Those I have successfully gamed but fumbled since I got shit drunk, got sleepy, or got so drunk that the dick won't even stand up so friend zoned them: Even lesser reply frequency.

  4. THOSE WHOM I FORGOT TO GAME, BUT DID HIT ON THEM WITH THE NICE GUY VIBE(no push and pull, no PUA tricks, no considering yourself as a price, just being friendly, good guy throughout and then hinting for a future date or complimenting them later in the night)

THIS CATEGORY OF WOMEN ARE LITERALLY LEAVING ME ON SEEN.

And this is not a one off incident, that's a recurring pattern I have now seen. There was even one girl whom I sent photos of last night party, she put those photos on insta status, two days later I reply on her story, she leaves me on seen. I send her few reels later, still left on seen. And I was like, damn we shared such a good bond on vacation and now I am getting seen zoned. Just because I was a nice person throughout and didn't MANIPULATE you.

And guys it's a pattern. Few other such examples. I just feel bad for actual nice guys who don't know about game and want love to develop "organically".

Like personally I would reply to any traveller I met and chatted with if the DM me on insta. Imagine being so full of yourself that you don't even reply. What's your views upon it. Is the market that bad? Or is there a girls code which I don't know off.