How to get back the my ex that I ditched years ago?

Marighnamani27 · 2025-07-19T04:34:23+00:00

Getting an ex back shouldn't be on your list. There is a reason why she's your ex in the first place. But, if you really want her back, ask her out and stop the unnecessary chit chat on Snapchat.

Ask her out now. On the date, Do Not bring up stuff from your past relationship with her. Treat the date as if you are meeting her for the first time. Keep the date fun and casual and if the vibe is good, make your move.

You will have to treat her and the date like you are going out for the very first time. No talks about past relationships. If she brings it up, tell her "We were teenagers back then and I'm sorry for what happend" and then change the topic. Whenever she tries to bring it up, you answer briefly and change the topic to lighter things.

Keep flirting with her as and when you see the opening. That's it.

Once again, Treat it like a brand new date. Good luck.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-07-19T05:24:14+00:00

You have no idea how to win back a person you've successfully dated, fucked up a relationship with, and then apparently learned a valuable lesson from?

MaximumCoffeeDrinker · 2025-07-19T09:39:24+00:00

Don’t.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-07-19T06:57:41+00:00

Just talk to her. You’ve already had sex. Be nice. Don’t be mean. Treat her like a person and care for her as person. Ironically this will get u laid

TWN21 · 2025-07-19T12:39:53+00:00

Forget it. You're operating from a scarcity mindset. Meeting new women is always the better path. If she truly wanted to be with you again, she would make it clear and easy. I've been in this exact situation more than once, so I speak from experience. It never ends well when you cling to this kind of mentality. You either go out and build new relationships, or you keep trying to revive something that already failed. Either way, you'll remember this advice.

Title	How to get back the my ex that I ditched years ago?
Author	EfficientInstance558
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	July 19, 2025 4:08 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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