The endless circle

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-07-22T04:40:54+00:00

men should stop going for women who hate men, and go for women who like men.

I don't let women who hate men define reality.

antifeminist3 · 2025-07-22T15:13:39+00:00

"Men mean to women"

Nope. Feminists are misandric and teach this to women. Women started it and men respond not with hatred, but apathy towards women. Women respond by falsely conflating men disengaging from women as hatred.

This conflation is basically saying women are entitled to men's attention. No. In the same way feminists/women say men are not entitled to women's attention, women are not entitled to men's attention. Teach women to recognize men's autonomy, and teach women to stop vilifying men.

Vilifying men and expecting men to continue to want to engage women is toxic--if men actually engaged with toxic women, this would be a toxic relationship perpetuated by the women against the man.

World-Three · 2025-07-22T04:44:32+00:00

Empathy... Issue with that is that both sides are armed vicariously with their gender's issues. Can YOU forgive someone for something that happened to someone else? No. They can apologize for it, but that literally does nothing for this gendered situation, and only the individual.

So the question is painfully childish... Who goes first? And that's why nothing has changed. We know who isn't going first. There's already plenty of accounts where they'll never go first even for their own sake... And in aspects where we do go first, we get judged and insulted. So we're not going first either.

It isn't equal... There are a lot of things men have right to be afraid of that women refuse to acknowledge because "women face it more" or "men created the system". So there are going to always be potholes women tow men over that hurt them more than they care to understand. Women may have similar issues, but they aren't blanketly dismissed in the same way men's issues are.

BEEZY086 · 2025-07-22T03:51:58+00:00

Fear is the path to the darkside.

Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hatred. Hatred leads to suffering.

I sense much fear in you.

Most-Inflation-4370 · 2025-07-22T11:25:56+00:00

Thank feminism

Epicael · 2025-07-22T04:24:36+00:00

This is how the cycle of hate works, and honestly, the only thing we can do is avoid replicating those toxic attitudes that only harm our society. Although we cannot prevent some idiot from continuing to act in that way we can attack those messages and not the one who said it, because if they are attacked they will continue now with a lame excuse and more people will hear it and spread the message

Holiday_Bid_3245 · 2025-07-22T05:52:08+00:00

Buddha said in Dhammapada verse 5: Hatred is, indeed, never appeased by hatred in this world. It is appeased only by loving-kindness. This is an ancient law.

No_Leather3994 · 2025-07-22T16:03:13+00:00

Simple, in school stop teaching they are being oppressed. Also in media.

I babysit my nephews and the amount of shows that have some form of "woman oppressed, man bad, woman needs to beat man to win" formulas out there are most definitely influencing people.

The cycle stops when society stops trying to tell women they are oppressed 24/7. I can't think of a single show that hasn't had some form of feminism injected into it. Full on feels like a conspiracy.

AndyRoo2023 · 2025-07-22T09:15:40+00:00

Gotta ‘love’ the way you began your ‘cycle’ with the ‘men mean to women’ line. If you’re going to start with this kind of inaccurate rhetoric…it weakens the validity of the rest.🌿

CauliflowerBig3133 · 2025-07-22T19:13:24+00:00

The system is designed that way.

Can women and men be nice to each other.

Sure.

If sex is transactional and the deal is clear then yes.

But that's prohibited.

What's legal is women get money from men through court system that's hostile to men.

CeleryMan20 · 2025-07-22T20:50:53+00:00

Monkey brain will always favour monkey tribe. Monkey want to belong and feel valued. Me monkey.

Religious congregations, fraternities, schoolyard cliques and mean girls, military units, cults: examples abound.

Identity politics wants you to identify with tribes based on qualities like gender, sexuality, race, etc.

The solution (or perhaps a partial solution) is for our personal tribes to be diverse. To have a balanced mixture of male and female friends, workmates, and acquaintances of different ages from varied cultural backgrounds. That can be hard, if you don’t meet many people in your work environment or other day-to-day activities.

If our only interactions with the opposite sex are as romantic and sexual partners, or as online opponents, we only see a limited view.

Having a few good people in one’s life, you can take a step back and say that this other person’s shit behaviour isn’t because they are male/female. It’s not “all women are like that” or “yes all men”, when you know people who are “not like that”.

DialecticWound · 2025-07-22T09:40:28+00:00

post scarcity individualism. nothing else will ever fix anything.

Title	The endless circle
Author	Known-Flatworm-4515
Upvotes	52
Comments	25
Date	July 22, 2025 3:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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