How has Tea App affected you?

Coffeelock1 · 2025-07-25T01:37:41+00:00

Any woman who would use an app that is mostly for hating men and spreading lies, like most of the are we dating the same guy groups have turned into, isn't a woman I'd really want to date anyway. If someone posted lies about me there and I ended up getting turned down by someone because they believe in a misandrist app even if they aren't telling me about it, I'm glad they are filtering themselves out of my dating pool. If it has affected me without me knowing it hasn't affected me in a negative way.

The more concerning issue is if recruiters start using this to look up male applicants and start turning men down for jobs because of entirely unverified accusations that the guy will never know he has been accused of since recruiters do look at social media. Or if someone decides to go vigilante on a guy she sees falsely accused on that app and harms an innocent guy over false accusations. Or if a woman actually takes a false accusation against a guy to court or to HR and a judge or HR person tries to treat any unverifiable accusations against him from that app as evidence of having a history of doing what he is falsely accused of. Also, I've heard it is helping cover up and encouraging spreading illegal revenge porn against men reaching a wider audience.

local_meme_dealer45 · 2025-07-25T10:01:33+00:00

Personally it hasn't, the EU has strong data privacy regulations (GDPR) which means Tea would get fined into the ground if it were available here.

I do feel incredibly bad for you guys who don't have such protections. You need to start campaigning both to get an equivalent law to GDPR as well as banning stalking apps like Tea.

sn95joe84 · 2025-07-25T04:54:14+00:00

Lost a relationship.

She posted me in AWDTSG for tea/red flags… just trying to dig up dirt (there was none). I felt super weird about it. She lied to me. So convincingly. Told me it wasn’t her… then a woman friend got in the group and found out it was her… had to break it off.

I don’t trust liars and neither should you. Tea app / AWDTSG users are not dating material. Pump and dump at best. Sorry to be harsh, but they’re not empathetic people.

OpportunityTop8826 · 2025-07-25T00:49:25+00:00

First of all, yes, get therapy. Just be careful you don’t end up with a female-centered therapist, they’re rare unfortunately. Also, therapy doesn’t have to be only therapists, you going to the gym to be surrounded by supportive men can also be therapy.

The Tea app is affecting all of us, directly or indirectly. We are already seeing and hearing about men who found out they are the group chat’s topic. Some are succeeding at writing complaints and getting their photos taken down, but from the examples i’ve seen, a many men, especially black men, are getting turned into the butt of a joke on there. Body shaming, misandry, gossip, you name it.

The core idea of the app, no matter how anyone wants to spin it off as a “women’s safety space,” is about creating a space where men are stripped of their right to consent. Not only are men not allowed on the app, they are not given any right to privacy or anonymity, while having no consent to the conversations about them. Meanwhile, the women not only get anonymity, but have free rein to say whatever they want.

This affects all of us men

FoundationFit5751 · 2025-07-25T00:19:32+00:00

That’s the point. You don’t know. Women will just ghost you when you’re on dating apps.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2025-07-25T01:25:16+00:00

MGTOW is the answer.

Yousaidyoudfighforme · 2025-07-25T15:17:43+00:00

(American) men really need to care less about what women do/think of them. I recommend you read „the four agreements“, especially the second one will help this sub. It ain’t about you. It’s all about them.

SpaceKnight444 · 2025-07-25T02:28:02+00:00

Do you have the app I want to know if I’m on there and what kind of shit is on there

ElectricalSoil546 · 2025-07-26T08:09:26+00:00

I just hate women more.

Deckardisdead · 2025-07-25T18:37:34+00:00

I know nothing about it.

Firm_Cover2140 · 2025-07-25T21:59:25+00:00

I can't go to resteraunts anymore and a few places. my medical info and banking info has been doxxed. i feel violated but don't that there will ever be justice

Normal_Cow1991 · 2025-07-26T09:45:06+00:00

I'm seeing this "Tea app" convo everywhere in the subreddit. Now I'm curious to know what it is, can anyone explain?

Professional-Shop231 · 2025-07-26T11:13:19+00:00

Not at all, and couldn’t care less. All forms of social media have been a bane to society; however, no one seems to care, so I’ve turned into an accelerationist. The quicker, the better.

sgtm7 · 2025-07-26T11:49:54+00:00

Not at all. Never heard of it, until I saw the post here on reddit.

1ThousandDollarBill · 2025-07-25T01:56:21+00:00

Guys, this is ridiculous. The only place I have heard of this app is on this subreddit

anonybro101 · 2025-07-25T03:55:55+00:00

You can’t be serious right now? You’re just giving it more traction by posting this. This app will die out in a few weeks. Relax. And if it does take off, then it’ll be overrun with bots and AI slop.

Title	How has Tea App affected you?
Author	Smart-Protection-562
Upvotes	34
Comments	35
Date	July 25, 2025 12:10 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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