TL;DR: got any tips if i got any sitution at a party where i feel like a women being flirting or reciprocal? I love the interaction and it was fun but im new to flirting in the sense of timing and escalating.

So basically I went to a “Sexy Nerds” party feeling nervous and out of place, partly because I’m autistic and partly because I wasn’t sure I’d fit in. On the first night, I spent time getting comfortable with the environment before gathering the courage to talk to a cute girl. I started with a compliment on her outfit and we bonded over nerdy stuff, like cosplay and K-pop. We danced together a bit, brushing up against each other while having light, fun conversation. She got more into the music, but when I went to talk to others, she left, and I never got her number.

The second night, a different woman recognized me from the previous night. She was tall, fit, and cosplaying as Yourichi from Bleach. She asked if “i came alone” We talked at the bar, I got her Instagram, and later we joined a small group at the back of the club. As the night went on, she flirted with me calling me cute, complimenting my hair, holding my arm, and letting our knees touch—while we talked and laughed. We danced again, vibing to the music, before splitting up when I got drained from the party, ending the night with a hug.

After the party, our interaction continued online. We joked about anime preferences, flirted playfully, and talked about personality traits, with her teasing that she was a “red flag” while I matched the conversation with humor. We explored some kink interests lightly, and I shared my past relationship experience. She asked me if i was busy and unfortnately i was. She also mention that she couldnt tell that i flirting.

You guys got any advice?