I would love to hear from other people who were or are trying to make the logistics of suggestion and hookups happen while living with the folks. Advice about moving out is unhelpful as I know that is the best option, and one I am working towards, but the best do the most with the least for the longest.

I am only a student, but I feel fairly confident in pushing things in a sexual direction on a date, confident in touch, confidence to suggest we be alone, that part is cool. All my sexual experience has been spontaneously in (private and hidden) public spaces or outdoors or within the confines of a hotel.

It's both astronomically expensive and perhaps unarousing to "spontaneously" get a hotel anytime you are about to seal the deal, so I would like to hear other's solutions for how you pulled under similar living situation. A lot of the women I've been in situations with also live with a parent or seem reticent about taking a man back (Should this be read as me not doing what was necessary? I think it's partially that, but can't blame it all on what was in my control)

Thanks, and hopefully can inspire some good discussion.