My first post in here was at the end of June, my Ex Wife stunned me with divorce, proceeding to have sex with her best friends brother days later, got me kicked out of my own house, called the police on me, fought me in court, kept the kids away from me, trapped me in a town I don’t want to be in, lied to me, manipulated the court system, everything a woman can do! I went through the wringer, but now I have joint residential custody of my kids, a house in the country, I see my friends every weekend, sex life has been great, AND my ex wife just recently mentioned she wants to move back where I’m from and where my family is to be with her new boyfriend. There was days and nights in between where I didn’t know if I was gonna make it, but sitting here this morning reminiscing on the last few months I now know I can mentally make it through anything life has for me. I am not “healed” fully but the sting thinking about my ex is somehow gone and I couldn’t be more grateful, sometimes someone just has to disgust you until you hate them. If you are in the worst part of your divorce just keep going. I promise you one day your brain will work out who that new person is and the agony will slowly calm itself down.