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Defining the Problem

Like many of you, I've dated my fair share of blonde women and though I'm not too tired of it, I must admit that Blonde Fatigue might be a real thing, and I'm saying this as a melanated man.

I've had 3 relationships with blonde women and met dozens more on casual dates. Nearly all of them exhibited a certain 'unnaturally privileged' energy where they thought they didn't have to put in any real effort in dating. It's almost as though they thought they were doing me a favor by going out with me. And these girls were objectively of average attractiveness.

When I was a kid in the 90s in rural America, there was a common "dumb blonde" stereotype popularized by movies and TV shows -- A stereotype that people would playfully point out in day-to-day life from time to time.

Today, not only has this stereotype seemed to have fade out of public discourse, but blondes currently enjoy the most attention and status they've ever had in America. In other words, they have the most inflated SMV value of every phenotype of woman, to where it's not uncommon for a blonde who's a 5/10 looks-wise to get better treatment than a 7/10 girl of a different color scheme. As in better treatment in the workplace, by strangers in public, and by men she meets on dates.

Not to mention blonde girls are now one of the biggest benefactors of DEI hires.

Why it matters

Being red-pilled means understanding how and why the dating market is evolving and why certain types of women behave the way they do.

Blonde Fatigue is a postmodern problem. Society perceives blondes as higher value today than they did decades ago, and blondes as a result have an inflated self-worth. And as a result of this inflated self-worth, more men will feel Blonde Fatigue.

Just some observations on a changing dating landscape from an older unc.

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