Initiating

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-10-13T06:48:09+00:00

Escalate through kissing and touching her all over her body, gliding over her sensitive spots. If she puts hands to stop you, deescalate two steps back and keep kissing. Try again later. If she's still stopping you, deescalate and tell her you want to touch her chest. Slowly escalate over her clothes. If the girl's is shy, it will take a lot more time than with a woman who's used to something naughtier. Respect her and escalate slowly and through communication. Tell her how much you want her, tell her where you want to touch her, describe how she makes you feel and lead her into her own romance novel.

Escalating to kissing is best done through touching hands, dancing, hugging, gliding over her back, squeezing her close to you, kissing her hair or cheeks, her neck, telling her that you want to feel her bite your neck, then biting her neck. Then you can kiss her lips and unleash the passion forward.

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-10-14T07:29:10+00:00

Progressive framing. Having "checkpoints" help. Mapping out tje whole escalation sequence in advance and goong through the steps. You should know where you stand at any moment and what to do next. But on general think: 1. Hands and arms + exaggerated romantic jokes 2. Face and neck + sexual compliments 3. Torso and legs + telling her what youre thinking of doing to her

In that order generally .

burncushlikewood · 2025-10-13T06:16:03+00:00

Escalation through touch, building sexual tension, eye contact, body language

Big-Date8342 · 2025-10-13T06:40:49+00:00

My tactic is, isolate her and Invite her to sex location. Then start touching her erogenous points, she will be getting horny asf, then tell her whatever reason why you can't sleep with her (you have whiskey dick or whatever) by now she will be begging for you to f*** her or to let her fix the issue. Prepare for great sex.

OpenUrMynd · 2025-10-19T00:21:58+00:00

This always worked for me. get her alone in a room then grab her by the waist, pull her toward you and passionately kiss her! Passionate kissing always works and it sets it all off ..

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-13T09:34:40+00:00

Invite her to sex-appropriate location.
Ask her what kind of sex she likes.
Ask if she wants to try that.

Title	Initiating
Author	richathlete_d
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	October 13, 2025 6:13 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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