I have this thought. So, i was wondering about subtle flirting, like having a low and calm tone of voice and making your gaze do the talk, even during a date. What are the cons of this approach ? Does it makes you seem outcome independend ? Would you say it as an approach that can be used on a first date ? I'm asking this because I have a bubbly personality, I like to make silly (sometimes even obtuse) jokes, yet my calm collected side never comes out. I believe that makes girls no want to have second dates, or engage into a fwb type of energy. Since I have this bubbly personality they think I want something serious. So, lately I've been trying to be more calm, collected. No compliments, tease but with a tone of voice almost mischivious. I just dont know how to mix my bubbly side with the calm, great gaze man during my dates, my interactions.