I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win Situation

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LavaDragon3827 · 2025-10-27T15:06:41+00:00

Good mindset. You either win, or you learn.

karl_ae · 2025-10-27T16:40:56+00:00

I agree. Keep on doing what you are doing.

I just read the book minimal game from Aaron Sleazy. Highly recommend the book as he shares a few powerful tips

It's all about building a feedback loop. You do more of what works and improve what doesn't work.

Remember to have fun and be yourself. If you are sincere, i.e. don't use any prepared openers and be spontaneous, you will get very little to no rejections

No_Professor1089 · 2025-10-27T16:13:40+00:00

I actually just approached a girl asking for her spotify recommendations and it went to movies, series and other stuff and then at the end she says she's 17. But I'd say I brought a smile on her face and made her day

Dontemcl · 2025-10-27T15:50:32+00:00

Yea, I actually make it a goal to get rejected as many times as possible as wins and look at the times I do get numbers as losses. It’s how I psychologically trick myself to not look as rejections as bad. Your going to get way more rejections to wins so why not look forward to those rejections instead.

OldPop420 · 2025-10-27T15:28:33+00:00

with experience, you can begin to tell by learning body language. At least you can see the clues when you get the first look. What comes out of your mouth next is what you will struggle with even more if you’re like me.

Bullbythehorns25 · 2025-10-27T16:45:46+00:00

Always better but most men fear looking stupid, or getting embarrassed; it’s always better to try and fail in life then wonder what if.

water_reducer · 2025-10-27T17:09:54+00:00

Maybe if you live in a major city with close to or more than a million people, otherwise it’s a massive time sink. If you work and have other responsibilities then going out to do cold approaches for 20 or more hours a week is just dumb. Only worth doing if you’re young or need the experience to see what it’s like but after a certain amount of time you’ll hopefully move on to a system that is more efficient.

Fair_Entrepreneur686 · 2025-10-27T15:05:22+00:00

All you're doing is boosting her ego.

Title	I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win Situation
Author	United-Implement-382
Upvotes	48
Comments	18
Date	October 27, 2025 2:49 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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