Feminist Influencer Sommer Tothill Says That All Straight Relationships Are Inherently Toxic

DeliciousSTD · 2025-10-27T20:41:18+00:00

Imagine falling in love with someone.

Whom you share a deep connection with.

That you are willing to die for.

Split your last dollar for.

Split your last sandwitch for.

The shirt off your back when needed.

Literally share secrets about you.

Be super naked infront of that person. Emotional spiritually. Financial. Politically ..

Cry together. Be vulnerable with one another.

All for this idiot to say "its toxic" shes unhealed asf

Cuz feminism is suppose to be about equality and yet she didnt bring up a point about what a womans role only for women to receive . But not wanting to put in the work her self.

DeliciousSTD · 2025-10-27T20:45:31+00:00

"Oppressed and oppressor "

Lmao....

Im down to die for my girl.. how is she oppressed?

Shes dripped out in Chanel and marc jacobs.

Her gas tank always full , her nails are always done.

My gf is oppressed?? Wtf

SquaredAndRooted · 2025-10-27T21:28:53+00:00

All women who share the same thoughts - Please go 4B or start your own country or just migrate to some other planet 😂

yearush · 2025-10-27T23:54:20+00:00

Then why you yourself is in a toxic relationship? WTH is this logic?

right_lane_kang · 2025-10-28T01:54:21+00:00

Imagine having to live with that daily 🤮🤮🤮🤮

pepeneverknew · 2025-10-28T01:10:02+00:00

She’s toxic to herself.

henrysmyagent · 2025-10-28T00:23:17+00:00

"This totally not-imaginary feminist boyfriend you have, is he in the room with us now?"

Her long suffering mental health professional

RevolutionaryClue364 · 2025-10-27T21:49:41+00:00

“OH MY GOD — WHO! THE HELL! CARES!” - Me — not even 5 secs of this bullshit cuz I know it’s gonna just get worse from there

Ok-Associate9886 · 2025-10-27T21:03:04+00:00

Wait what the hell this person is a straight woman that means this is friendly fire towards other straight couples.....

aikighost · 2025-10-28T13:04:21+00:00

That must be why the highest level of partner physical abuse takes place in lesbian relationhips....

jamabalayaman · 2025-10-28T05:07:49+00:00

I'm so sick and tired of this "cultural marxism" nonsense. No, men and women aren't classes. "Domestic, emotional and intimate labour" - yeah no, none of these things are actually labour, they don't generate surplus value, and there is no exploitation going on.

These people don't even know the actual definitions of the words they're using, they are just extremely delusional ideologues -_- .

"It's toxic because of the gendered power dynamic" - OK, but you know that you can CHOOSE to not have a power dynamic in your relationship, right?! It's not something that's just magically inherent to straight relationships -_- .

She also talks about "letting go of the idea of the fairy tale heterosexual marriage", but I'll bet you anything that she unrealistically idealises lesbian relationships xD .

AssociationDue3077 · 2025-11-03T20:45:35+00:00

She's stupid, shes wrong, shes mysandrist, but shes not a hypocrite because she says her straight relationship is toxic.. at least..?

LumpyCorn · 2025-10-28T06:11:09+00:00

She suffers from a traumatic brain injury, clearly.

TheDdken · 2025-10-28T20:21:22+00:00

So easy to recognize someone who took Gloria Steinem's nonsense too seriously.

Readingfanfic · 2025-10-30T15:59:41+00:00

No one wants her so she’s projecting hard to make herself feel better.

Ryno-Dee · 2025-10-28T06:28:19+00:00

Her + Washer + Dryer = Peace/Quiet

Its_Stavro · 2025-10-30T10:47:36+00:00

Saying literally ALL straight marriages are bad super is insane and super delusional.

A lot of straight couples are more than okay, any sexuality isn’t inherently bound to if it can be good or toxic. Straight, gays, etc. can be both healthy or unhealthy. That’s common sense and empirical facts.

This is just bigotry towards men. It’s makes no sense. Insane bigots like these should get banned from social media.

Also men aren’t inherently “evil powerful monster oppressor”. We are first and foremost human beings like anyone. We can love and be moral, we are humans like anyone, by most part.

Sleeksnail · 2025-10-28T01:49:35+00:00

Unfortunately she's right, but it's actually that most straight women are toxic AF and it's because of ghouls like her.

Title	Feminist Influencer Sommer Tothill Says That All Straight Relationships Are Inherently Toxic
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	106
Comments	39
Date	October 27, 2025 8:19 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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