Realistic Expectations From Cold Approach

taysoncat14 · 2025-11-01T02:00:26+00:00

Yeah what he says sounds about right … realistically will fuck 1 girl for every 20-30 that you approach.. if you’re really good looking then it might be 1 girl out of 15 but that’s as good as it gets, you still need to do 15 approaches at least before you get your first lay.. I realized I get laid with 1 girl out of every 15-25 girls I hit on. At the end of the day, it is a numbers game. But that’s with almost anything. You often times have to apply at different places to get a job.

robofrogmagus · 2025-11-03T19:03:53+00:00

Do you have any stats on your nightgame approaches?

I mean, 2-4 lays out of 100 sets in daygame seems like the ratio most guys who are good at it achieve. But how about at bars and clubs? I personally feel like those are a bit higher, maybe 4-8 out of 100?

I feel like those stats might improve during night because of a few factors:

1- alcohol as a social lubricant makes people more open to meeting.

2- Fewer girls in relationships in those environments

3- Social proof if it is a venue that you go to regularly and know more people there.

4- More girls are open to meeting new guys in those environments.

5- Depending on the venue girls will tend to like different stereotypes of men ( If you have a rocker styler, you might get a better response on a rock bar for example)

I am curious about you opinion and stats on nightgame. Thanks.

Sea-Independence2881 · 2025-10-31T02:53:47+00:00

Didn’t see your breakdown of like approaches to lays/numbers to dates etc.

Title	Realistic Expectations From Cold Approach
Author	Total_Obligation_371
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	October 30, 2025 7:27 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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