I realized something.. approaching actually feels good. Even when they say no, you don’t regret it, and you don’t feel bad about yourself afterward. You just feel… solid. Like you showed up as a man instead of hiding.
One thing I’ve noticed is that when you don’t approach and stay isolated for too long, your mind starts doing weird things. You overthink, you doubt yourself, and you can slowly start turning that inward or outward in unhealthy ways. So honestly, talk, connect, try. It matters more than we think.
Sadly, I have a small bad story too.. There’s this girl who works at a supermarket near me. I thought she was cute and I kept telling myself I’d talk to her… but I lost momentum after not approaching for a few weeks. And today I saw her talking to another guy.. laughing, playing with her hair, clearly interested. That one stung a bit, not gonna lie.
So yeah.. I’m starting my daily “game report” again here. I stopped for a while, but when I was doing it, it actually helped a lot to share it with you all.
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