Alright so I am fine at getting numbers now, can build good attraction in person; or so it seems. Definitely helps a lot to be physically good-looking – muscles are a big part (no pun intended)! Night and day treatment from women to me as a muscular guy compared to me 3 years ago skinny. Have an easy-ish time meeting new girls through my current schooling/career choice. Not so good at nightclub/bar game at the moment -- but that is something I'll continue to work on.

Though, I still can’t consistently pull the girls I really want and make them plates; been having to settle for the easier ones many times. I’m just not proficient at this whole “game” thing yet – all the most desirable women are definitely the ones where game is necessary the most. I can do the initial game, but my follow-up sucks – especially my text game!! It definitely needs work.

I Here’s this “game” aspect. Now I have to say something that spikes her emotions in the right way, build some quick comfort, and then press for a meet-up again?

I’ve gotten quite a few sexy numbers in the past several weeks and have only gotten 2 dates and 1 lay out of them. Each one has texted me back but most of them end up fizzing out, I just don’t know where I’m going wrong. Each one of these girls is obviously giving me the chance to sleep with them, but somehow I’m messing it up over these texts. Surely there is a way to keep up a positive interaction over text with every girl.

Any advice? From what I take it I should be:

  1. Centering around meet-up. Though I definitely do not believe it’s a good idea to push for a meetup with the first few texts; I feel like there needs to be SOME amount of comfort building first. Any thoughts?

  2. Giving value over texts; showing I am high value.

  3. Never asking for permission/ “if she wants to..”, always telling

  4. Showing I don’t care and have other options subtly

  5. Being random; ignoring some of what they say/re-framing it to suit you

  6. Keeping texts short? I have trouble with this, I like to always use sentences/2 quick texts in a row send my points.

  7. Emojis? Yes/no/sometimes? I think they are great but am still definitely experimenting with their use.

  8. Cocky/funny/witty? Still having trouble with this as well, but believe it’s coming along.

Last night it was a by-product of the SAME thing: my relative lack of text-game know-how. I ended up in contact with the friend of a potential plate. Ended up going to the apartment; hadn’t texted the potential plate for 2 weeks because she never responded to my last text. Got to the apartment, turns out the potential was still all about me. Why she never texted back, I have no idea. Ended up sleeping with her and she asked why I hadn’t got in contact with her sooner. Just said I was busy – didn’t say that “Oh you never responded so I nexted you!”. Honestly, I’m starting to think that advice is pretty terrible – seems like I’ve probably missed out on a bunch of lays. Apologies for the rambling post – really tired and trying to figure this all out. Trying to build this harem up nicely and have a ways to go.

Any input from the crowd?