Context: I(mid 20s male) moved to this new neighbourhood not too long ago and ever since moving I frequently bumped into this girl(40f) who seems flirty in person(she overshared a lot the first few times we spoke but also seemed to take some interest in me). She attempted to mirror my perceivable traits in a lot of ways. She said things like "I'm also an introvert but im an extrovert with the right person!". She wore makeup to greet me once. She also expressed her interest in going to the cinema with me. She frequently says she told her friends about me and cant wait for me to meet them. However, she has some questionable behaviours like asking for me to get her/buy her stuff(a can opener specifically since she was making soup) a few days after just meeting her and another day asking if I have seen another man lately to see if hes still in the neighborhood since she "visits him" then just afterwards asking for a small favor. I assume shes either testing my willingness to be an orbiter or if shes making up bullshit stories trying to make me jealous but idk. For what it's worth I have never seen her with the man in question.

So not too long ago, the same girl comes to my flat on easter morning and gets mad when I tell her I don't feel like doing anything that particular day even though another day could work. Later on, she asks to come over to my flat because she feels lonely since no one is there for her and then vents out her issues in life and crying whilst holding me tight in bed and nesting her head on my chest for most of the day. She also inquired about my life/issues I think although it was mostly her venting. She asked me why I like her. Later on, we agreed to watch a movie so I was setting it up and she said "I dont really care about all of this tbh, I only care about you" whilst staring at me intensely. Mind you, she has called me friend a few times up until this point. She called me a good friend whilst we were cuddling in bed and I responded in a way that made it clear I was surprised she still considers me just a friend. She chuckled and then asked if I wanted to have sex. I declined sex then shortly afterwards she says im "hot" and could get more attractive women and kisses my chest repeatedly then shortly afterwards falls asleep.

The next day we are still in bed she is still holding me tight and resting her head on my chest. She says when she was half asleep she thought I was her dad and then says i'm like the older brother she never had. She asks again why I like her. She starts emotionally venting again then buys some alcohol and food via uber eats. She then has to leave for a little bit because she felt embarassed when her dad came in and told me to make sure she doesnt drink with me(shes an alcoholic). A few hours later she comes back and was completely drunk to the point she was shaking but hugged me tight again. Eventually she had to go to the hospital and ever since she hasn't responsed to my texts/calls.

Anyway, from the information above do you think she genuinely liked me or was just using me as an emotional tampon or for attention? I thought at first she felt offended that I rejected sex and distanced me as a friend despite initially liking me but it might be wishful thinking.