I posted something similar on this sub previously. Soon, as she moves out, we are trying counseling. I find myself question how this could go anywhere. All fingers are pointed at me for her leaving. So far, I have heard very little accountability for the state of affairs. No infidelity, abuse, addiction, etc. I'm not sure how to ask how this could possibly work without talking it immediately.

I know, she may just be using this to confirm her decison. Emotionally, I do not expect it to work. She has said so mamu hurtful things over the past few months. A number were later things she said because I made her mad with a statement. While I may have hurt her with my honesty, I never said anythig to directly hurt her.