Recently discovered that my wife, who recently requested a dissolution, has dwarfed me in savings. During our marriage, I have paid for a greater percentage of our bills. My income has always been significantly higher, but I have student loan debt. Hers has increased dramatically, but her contribution did not other than picking up an expensive dinner here and there.

I love her and I am trying to fight. Also, discovered that one of her support people is a manhater who is happy to fuck over a political rival. Now, I feel that once the fight to preserve ends, I may just tell her to file. In our state, she will have no basis for divorce at the time and as it stands now, she will need to kick assets my way. I love her so much that I have a hard time imagining going down this road. However, she did not understand marriage as a partnership concept, or value her vows,, she may as well learn how it works legally. Parting gift.