How do I stop making assumptions about women I like?

OpinionThink481 · 2026-05-09T12:01:12+00:00

You make those assumptions because deep down you are scared of being rejected, so by making those assumptions you logically convince yourself that it's better not to approach in order to save yourself. So it's just a defense mechanism from your ego to avoid facing a girl telling you "not interested". That way the ego can say "well you did not get rejected, you simply didn't approach but if you would have approached maybe she would have liked you". So what you are doing is making assumptions for self-preservation because the ego prefers to keep you in doubt than having confirmation that the woman didn't like you. So what you need is to first learn how to take a rejection from any woman gracefully without being butthurt about it.

qmffngkdnsem · 2026-05-09T15:52:24+00:00

just know the fact that there are actually many black women who like white men a lot.

PrinceDestin · 2026-05-10T04:35:02+00:00

Imma be honest bro you will find a black women that likes white guys, most races that I’ve dated all said they don’t like white guys but I’ve come across a good amount of black women that prefer to go to white guys and hate black men

Now would you want a woman that hates her own races? The choice is yours but they are definitely out there, might even like you so much they make it real easy for you too. Now the Hispanic women idk

Some hate white guys and some hate black guys

But I’d say generally you’d have a chance

HeroicPrinny · 2026-05-14T11:22:04+00:00

Stop overthinking. In fact, stop thinking.

burncushlikewood · 2026-05-09T02:48:38+00:00

I think it's wonderful you're open minded enough to date outside your race, beauty has no race my friend, be confident in yourself!

saryiahan · 2026-05-09T02:49:11+00:00

By stop being racist. Just go say hi to them

Title	How do I stop making assumptions about women I like?
Author	GNA-4
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 9, 2026 2:43 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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