Busy bars recently on Thursday nights here
Was feeling a bit nervous for first approach of the night. Told a girl I liked her super curly hair and she reacted really well. Couldn't think of any good teases in the moment and fell into interview mode stuff but it seemed to work out. After a few mins she offered her number to me which doesn't happen often.
Approached 2 girls with an observation about their energy compared to everyone else inside. The friend laughed more than the girl I liked. I focused on the target and used teasing, pushpull, and some playful disqualification. The interaction never really hooked that good though despite all of that. Felt very one-sided and minimal reponses and my read of the body language was that the attraction just wasn't there
Opened a girl in the bar with a simple opener about the karaoke singing. She responded warmly. I used a lot of self-amusement, some teasing to try to get attraction. Conversation flowed decently well. Once she started investing slightly, I tried qualifying her a bit and escalating physically/verbal-flirtation-wise like T Valentine teached. She accepted the conversation but rejected the escalation/flirting each time, almost like she enjoyed the interaction socially but didn’t see me “that way.”. Maybe the natural attraction wasn't there. (Some coaches say you need to pass the eye test'). Eventually the convo fizzled naturally when I felt i'd ran out of ammo in terms of attraction building methods
Didn't get the chance to do anymore approaches as had to be up very early
The issue is still attraction, seemingly. The teachings almost never seems to have the desired effect but will keep slugging away
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