Cold approach is everything it’s truly a numbers game

South-Excitement1720 · 2026-05-28T08:57:06+00:00

Whilst technically I do Night Game, I do not like the label "cold approach", like lets be honest I am just a guy that likes talking to women, and if I feel attracted I am not afraid to act upon it.

However, ping ponging from woman to woman does not appeal to me, like I have known some guys to. Granted if you are starting out, there will be an element to this.

Whilst I agree you need to work on yourself like someone else on here suggested. But.... even if you are good on paper... if you are not putting yourself out there socially or are socially awkward, some guy who is worst on paper, will have better success because they at least have the minerals to go and talk to a woman.

jsbach123 · 2026-05-28T07:57:31+00:00

When people say cold approaching is creepy, they don't seem to understand that before the internet age, that's how most people met. You were at a social event or a random public place and you start up a chat with a stranger.

confused_8357 · 2026-05-29T07:22:14+00:00

a number means nothing if u are not meeting . are u guys meeting ?

mrMayaman · 2026-05-28T03:18:22+00:00

My motto is: "If you chase butterflies, they'll fly away. But if you build a beautiful garden. They'll come to you."

That's why I don't cold approach or chase at all. High interest women will come to you.

My focus is building up my finances by working hard, develop body by going to the gym, and having surgery to become 6 feet.

Title	Cold approach is everything it’s truly a numbers game
Author	yourmajesty_69
Upvotes	39
Comments	13
Date	May 28, 2026 1:55 AM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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